"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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couldnt go inside her

joe45

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had sex with gf yesterday and i did everything like foreplay kiss on neck lick her down there just **** area or around but i couldnt get 2 fingers in. i just could get 25% of my 2 index and middle finger in and if i tried to go more in she says its pain. same went for my penis just like not even enter and she says pain.
i also use lube and nothing much.she says she inexperienced sexually but not virgin and im not a big **** either or fat fingers.
we went out 6xs . what can i do know. i cant get my penis into her since i think maybe her vagina muscle is clencing or closing it off.

i did my best and im also inexperienced.from sucking nipples to neck ......etc
she is early 20s and im early 30s

do you think she clenching her vagina muscles on purpose so i cant enter. is that even possible for a girl to do. i dont know since im a guy and inexperience about women parts. i didnt want to penetrate her since she say it hurt. i did everything possible from lube, foreplay and you name it.
she did say its kind of fast what we are doing . we went out out already 6xs and i notice she lies to me sometimes as her stories dont always add up and a lot of hestiation
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's probably her birth control that is causing pain. I don't think it's widely known that BC can cause serious pain down there. Of course she should see her dr but I'm sure this is the problem
 

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This sounds like the exact situation I was in with my current GF.

Women who haven't had sex for quite a while (6 months or more) or have not had too many partners in life (which sounds like your girl because of her age and conservativeness) would have her vaginal canal much tighter due to not having been 'exercised' best way to describe it.

Also if she was a shy person who is not used to sexual intercourse, and shy by personality, that also contributes to her inability to relax which is pertinent to allowing her vaginal canal to accept you.

Those 2 factors would make the first few initial attempts to have intercourse very uncomfortable. It would be very tight for you in the first 10 times or so but eventually she will 'adjust' down there.

This is from personal experience and not some Urban Legend.

Good luck.

Exodus
 

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you gotta get her comfortable to get her juicies flowing, then you'll slip right into heaven.

Maybe more foreplay
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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^^ What gotED said, I experienced this with a girl last year, she was also pretty small (5'3")
 

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my **** can break through any *****, especially virgin *****
 

Atom Smasher

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Fatal Jay said:
my **** can break through any *****, especially virgin *****
What is this, Mad Libs?

I need a noun... ;)
 
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