"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'll get straight to the point. I'm about to list my point's or facts if you will and hopefully even I will learn from this.

1. Love... I use that as an excuse to get laid...

2. Stress that is bolded for 1 reason.... it kills, now this is my big problem... over the summer when posting here and on sosuave and that I had litterally sum 4 or so girls at almost one time... it was just fun. I'm 17 and describing one night I was making out with one girl and she didn;t wanna give me head, so I said I had to leave, went over with my pal Dustin, and we both got laid just 2 towns over (I ****ed that hoe in the back of a blazer lol)....

* STRESS KILLS BECAUSE:
A. it makes you angry
B. pushy- people that know whats up here know what I mean.
C. Hesitant/ caught up.
D. school and all the people there enhance that...
3. Right now I have one possibly 2 girls in the bag and I'm not satisfied with them at all.
4. BACK TO THE POINT.... patience, *****ES COME A DIME IN A DOZEN, and they come A dime in a dozen, and they *** a dime in a dozen lol remember that write it down lol.
5. Rejection... I probably get rejected as much as I get that *****, so here's how it pans out: "I give them hoes my ****, and if they don't like it there's another waiting."
EXAMPLE: FINE ASS POPULAR GIRL (now a college freshman while Im a H.S. junior), were alone and god damn huge tits! she has a bf... were alone and she knows I want her, we hold hands, and if her friends hadn't walked in I swear to god I wouldve kissed her.

EXAMPLE 2: MEDIOCRE H.S. freshman, I ask her to homecoming bc shes hott, but she doesn't know "the rules", doesn't have much confidence, and doesn't even dress nice, shes not popular. Bashes me and rejects me.
Yes boys, when you're me you realize whats going down.

6. LOOKS: I try and use them to my advantage 100%.... Just as you dont want an ugly *****, they down want an ugly guy. simple as that.

WHAT EVER SEEMS TO BE REALITY I.E..... youre sitting alone and a ***** sits next to you, you get the vibe that she likes you.... yea she wants your nuts.... approach. Ask for the number act in love get laid.

Stress kills, so dont hesitate or even think just do... I've been slippin' up on some big chances lately so its just about time now... I havent gotten laid since that last incident I described up there, like 3 months ago:confused: :nervous: .... yea shut up :eek: .....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You're shallow, and a dog.

I don't even need to elaborate, but one of these days you'll grow up i'm sure.

There is a fine line between seduction and straight up playin a chick, but thats a different story.

What was the point of this post? To tell people that you get laid? Well good for you haha. I just don't get where you're going with this..

Yet, I do agree with the thing about stress, thinking to much before an approach will hold you back.

But acting like your in love with a chick to get pvssy is a bit messed up, i'm all about not rushing into love, and taking stuff slow, and not even mentioning the word till the times right but you..you just seem like you got issues.

Just my opinion though.

-SCF
 

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Well, please feel free to correct me if i'm wrong.

You're saying you use the love word to get in girls pants.

Now I am ALL ABOUT seduction man, why do you think I come here? But its different to lie to a broad to try to bang her, than to actually be smooth and seduce her.

Just like in "Hitch" , he helps those guys be smooth, yet, he won't work with the guy that just wants some tang.

Now i'm aware that you aren't looking for love, alot of people on this board aren't.. so why lie to get laid?

Yes thats an issue thats been on this board for ages the whole "If you're following a guide than are you really yourself?".. But when you become someone else to the point where you are majorly lying to the chick (IE you tellin her you love her) thats just hurting her emotionally, and well also hurting yourself. At a young age you're teaching yourself bad habits and possibly negative conceptions about sex. But once again, this is what i'm getting from just one post.

and believe this or not, when that broads sitting next to you, she may think you're a sweet nice guy, who'd be fun to chill with.. not automoatically thinking "boy, i'd want to svck his dick.." So yes, by all means approach her, talk to her have fun.. I don't know man, we have philiosophical differences, see I like the chase, I like the challenge, at at times, like to be the challenge, I like being smooth and funny, making her smile, i'm not attached to the out come, i'm attached to the chase. You on the other hand, you..you just want some ass and i'm sure you're greeattt at it.. but anyone can fuck, dogs can, cats can, gorillas and monkeys can.. I'm hesitant to insult you because I don't know you.. so i'm ending this now..

peace.

-scf
 
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I respect you bro don't worry about that. Ahhh, the way I see it.... it's a cruel world out there mayne, cruel. And, yes I take advantage through raw mental strength...

But I do believe in love, I started out by str8 dogging a girl this last summer and realized I honestly loved her. So really you just never know I guess............. Approach being yourself, but approach with the intent of sexuality and that... the girl will catch the vibe and either welcome or reject it... easiest game EVER written.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ima str8 up pimp said:
I respect you bro don't worry about that. Ahhh, the way I see it.... it's a cruel world out there mayne, cruel. And, yes I take advantage through raw mental strength...

But I do believe in love, I started out by str8 dogging a girl this last summer and realized I honestly loved her. So really you just never know I guess............. Approach being yourself, but approach with the intent of sexuality and that... the girl will catch the vibe and either welcome or reject it... easiest game EVER written.

You've watched Hustle And Flow toooo many times.


plz stop.


Go back to watching Little Bear on PBS.


tanx


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ima str8 up pimp said:
I'll get straight to the point. I'm about to list my point's or facts if you will and hopefully even I will learn from this.

1. Love... I use that as an excuse to get laid...

2. Stress that is bolded for 1 reason.... it kills, now this is my big problem... over the summer when posting here and on sosuave and that I had litterally sum 4 or so girls at almost one time... it was just fun. I'm 17 and describing one night I was making out with one girl and she didn;t wanna give me head, so I said I had to leave, went over with my pal Dustin, and we both got laid just 2 towns over (I ****ed that hoe in the back of a blazer lol)....

* STRESS KILLS BECAUSE:
A. it makes you angry
B. pushy- people that know whats up here know what I mean.
C. Hesitant/ caught up.
D. school and all the people there enhance that...
3. Right now I have one possibly 2 girls in the bag and I'm not satisfied with them at all.
4. BACK TO THE POINT.... patience, *****ES COME A DIME IN A DOZEN, and they come A dime in a dozen, and they *** a dime in a dozen lol remember that write it down lol.
5. Rejection... I probably get rejected as much as I get that *****, so here's how it pans out: "I give them hoes my ****, and if they don't like it there's another waiting."
EXAMPLE: FINE ASS POPULAR GIRL (now a college freshman while Im a H.S. junior), were alone and god damn huge tits! she has a bf... were alone and she knows I want her, we hold hands, and if her friends hadn't walked in I swear to god I wouldve kissed her.

EXAMPLE 2: MEDIOCRE H.S. freshman, I ask her to homecoming bc shes hott, but she doesn't know "the rules", doesn't have much confidence, and doesn't even dress nice, shes not popular. Bashes me and rejects me.
Yes boys, when you're me you realize whats going down.

6. LOOKS: I try and use them to my advantage 100%.... Just as you dont want an ugly *****, they down want an ugly guy. simple as that.

WHAT EVER SEEMS TO BE REALITY I.E..... youre sitting alone and a ***** sits next to you, you get the vibe that she likes you.... yea she wants your nuts.... approach. Ask for the number act in love get laid.

Stress kills, so dont hesitate or even think just do... I've been slippin' up on some big chances lately so its just about time now... I havent gotten laid since that last incident I described up there, like 3 months ago:confused: :nervous: .... yea shut up :eek: .....

I see where you're coming from man. not beautifully written but you have a point.

At this age girls just want to be fvcked and forgotten a lot of the time.
"hooking up," is what you summarized pretty much.

interesting post.
 

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StoneColdFox said:
You're shallow, and a dog.

Why settle for ugly and a great personality when you can find a butt load of hotties, and pick the one with the best personality?

Hottttt>UGLY


If she can't get me hard, then chances are that relationship isn't going anywhere. Thats what reels me in first, THEN you can work on my other head.

I told this to one girl, and she thought it was the "best thing shes ever heard"


"The way to my heart isn't through my penis, but it sure as hell helps"
 
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