For men out there, and Sosuave members, at some point in their lives, they learned that women don't love "the way we men do" or "they way men imagined". "love" it's "conditional". And "love", it's not "love" in the way man see it.
We also know that women will do "manipulative" things to achieve their goals and satisfy their needs.
Thinking about it, the basic example is s3x.
Maybe, if you have a shared goal like having a child, or an upcoming wedding, she wants to make you feel like a great man.
And She will ask herself "How could I make him more interested in this", or "How could I make this unforgettable" etc etc..
So you know that She will start to do things she hasn't done before, like She would start to beg for s3x and to do thinks like getting f0ck3d tied up, or in her 4ss, or giving you very long and submissive bl0w0bs, or maybe positions where you have complete control.
You know She's putting a bit of "performative"and extra "effort" on it. But that is still a bit normal.. She's a woman, right?
So, she became a dirty wh0re for that period, and maybe, after she gets what she wanted, It could be marriage, children, etc., then she will go back to normal, and never do those things again, or just when She need something again.
So, Given this, if you are a man who got into the entire process of oneitis, then you wakeup, you aknowledge women nature, etc etc etc...and started to consider all this is the "normal", now, how do you distinguish between a "genuine" woman who does these "normal" things, precisely "because women do it", and a "narcissistic/borderline" woman, who does it for other reasons, like dictated by her personality disorder?
We also know that women will do "manipulative" things to achieve their goals and satisfy their needs.
Thinking about it, the basic example is s3x.
Maybe, if you have a shared goal like having a child, or an upcoming wedding, she wants to make you feel like a great man.
And She will ask herself "How could I make him more interested in this", or "How could I make this unforgettable" etc etc..
So you know that She will start to do things she hasn't done before, like She would start to beg for s3x and to do thinks like getting f0ck3d tied up, or in her 4ss, or giving you very long and submissive bl0w0bs, or maybe positions where you have complete control.
You know She's putting a bit of "performative"and extra "effort" on it. But that is still a bit normal.. She's a woman, right?
So, she became a dirty wh0re for that period, and maybe, after she gets what she wanted, It could be marriage, children, etc., then she will go back to normal, and never do those things again, or just when She need something again.
So, Given this, if you are a man who got into the entire process of oneitis, then you wakeup, you aknowledge women nature, etc etc etc...and started to consider all this is the "normal", now, how do you distinguish between a "genuine" woman who does these "normal" things, precisely "because women do it", and a "narcissistic/borderline" woman, who does it for other reasons, like dictated by her personality disorder?