met a girl like 22 yr old, her highshcool sweethart died sometime when in highschool, she got a small phase dedicated to him by her heart, she wanted to be freinds on facebook thats how i saw the tat with her saying it was dedicated to him. we werent even freinds a week on facebook and i log on and see a post saying happy bday to him and bbq at her house. this guy has been gone like 4 years now, is she still in love with a dead guy? i ended up deleting her cuz it didnt look like she was serious about meeting up. doesnt bbq seem a little much after 4 yrs? i visioned that everytime id do her missionary id see this tat dedicated to another guy and figured that wouldnt work long term
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
could you date a girl with a tattoo of a phrase or name of another guy on her chest?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
Chicks with overt tatts piss me off.
If she wants to get a small tatt on her arse, hip or bikini line, I might just be able to handle it depending how hot she is.
But a woman with tatts that everyone can see has mental issues I reckon.
I don't care how meaningful it is to her, if you take this girl out, you'll look like a chump when you explain to people what her tatt means.
A woman who does that to herself is basically ridiculing every other guy who comes into her life. I'd find it insulting.
Dump her or just use her as a casual lay.
If she wants to get a small tatt on her arse, hip or bikini line, I might just be able to handle it depending how hot she is.
But a woman with tatts that everyone can see has mental issues I reckon.
I don't care how meaningful it is to her, if you take this girl out, you'll look like a chump when you explain to people what her tatt means.
A woman who does that to herself is basically ridiculing every other guy who comes into her life. I'd find it insulting.
Dump her or just use her as a casual lay.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
^^^^what he said^^^^
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She's an idiot, let her date some AFC that's gonna see that dudes name every time he looks at this girl.
My girlfriend is a widow. She was married for two weeks when her newlywed husband died in a car crash. She just marked the ‘anniversary’ of what would have been her eleventh wedding anniversary. It just goes to show how much an impact someone’s death can have on a lover. I think she sees some of him in me, because most of her description of him mirrors me. Before I met my girlfriend, I always thought widows would be most inoculated from the ravages of poor life decisions, as opposed to single mommies and divorcees; widows may be sad but at least they’re not bitter about men.
(Other dude’s name chest tattoo... hit it & quit it.)
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.