"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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could this be a sign of attraction?

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I recently ran into an old fling at the bar (we had dated on and off for a while) and decided to talk to her even it was a little awkard at first...

eye contact was good, not intense but not minimal... i noticed her play with hair a few times (she seemed to be doing that in general though, even when talking to her female friends)

Here's what really made me wonder if she was interested though, when we were talking she brought up a few old memories of when we were dating. I'm wondering if this could be a sign of attraction or some sort of interest?

The stories she brought up happened two and a half years ago, so am I wrong to take it as a good sign she still remembers me so well and is comfortable bringing it up? I'm curious, let me know
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BRO!! she brought up memories that happened 2 and a half years ago!! lol so im gonna go out on an limb and say SHES INTERESTED lol

but that could also mean that u were soo boring that she had to bring up events that happened 2+ years ago to keep the convo somewhat interesting.

But tsmith i know ur not a boring dude. step your game up and be confident and comfortable in the moment

good luck bro
 
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thats gotta be the friendliest reply i've ever gotten this board...

thanks :up:
 
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Brians_600rr said:
but that could also mean that u were soo boring that she had to bring up events that happened 2+ years ago to keep the convo somewhat interesting.
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I don't think she mentioned the past because the conversation was boring. We were talking about family friends, and she brought up a story from the day she met them at a BBQ a few summers ago. She basically just changed the conversation to bring up a nice memory. Afterwards, a few other things that happened while we were dating got mentioned, from either me or her. Before that, we had pretty much never discussed anything from our past relationship.

I'm trying to figure out if her bringing up the past is any kind of remote sign of interest, anybody got any ideas?
 
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