"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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could this be a sign of attraction?

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I recently ran into an old fling at the bar (we had dated on and off for a while) and decided to talk to her even it was a little awkard at first...

eye contact was good, not intense but not minimal... i noticed her play with hair a few times (she seemed to be doing that in general though, even when talking to her female friends)

Here's what really made me wonder if she was interested though, when we were talking she brought up a few old memories of when we were dating. I'm wondering if this could be a sign of attraction or some sort of interest?

The stories she brought up happened two and a half years ago, so am I wrong to take it as a good sign she still remembers me so well and is comfortable bringing it up? I'm curious, let me know
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BRO!! she brought up memories that happened 2 and a half years ago!! lol so im gonna go out on an limb and say SHES INTERESTED lol

but that could also mean that u were soo boring that she had to bring up events that happened 2+ years ago to keep the convo somewhat interesting.

But tsmith i know ur not a boring dude. step your game up and be confident and comfortable in the moment

good luck bro
 
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thats gotta be the friendliest reply i've ever gotten this board...

thanks :up:
 
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Brians_600rr said:
but that could also mean that u were soo boring that she had to bring up events that happened 2+ years ago to keep the convo somewhat interesting.
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I don't think she mentioned the past because the conversation was boring. We were talking about family friends, and she brought up a story from the day she met them at a BBQ a few summers ago. She basically just changed the conversation to bring up a nice memory. Afterwards, a few other things that happened while we were dating got mentioned, from either me or her. Before that, we had pretty much never discussed anything from our past relationship.

I'm trying to figure out if her bringing up the past is any kind of remote sign of interest, anybody got any ideas?
 
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