"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Could she be a PD?

biofreeze

New Member
Joined
Apr 29, 2007
Messages
6
Reaction score
0
First a little background: I used to frequent this site for tips a long time ago, got into a LTR and almost got married. Broke up a week before the wedding.

Now my first date since being free again. It went great. Got her laughing a lot. First kiss mid-way through the evening. Many more kisses followed, about half initiated by her.

I called her 3 days later just to tell her I would be out of town on business for 2 weeks and would call again after that. She said great, definitely wants to see me again.

The one thing that stands out as odd is that she didn't ask me any questions about myself except one: what I do for a living. Other than some other little tidbits I volunteered, she knows nothing about me. At least there's still some mystery and I didn't have to deflect any of those annoying "job interview" questions. But, could the lack of curiosity be a sign of a professional dater?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

violator

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 24, 2002
Messages
505
Reaction score
5
So what if she is a PD? what do you care. You guys have just met.

Always assume that a girl you are just dating is playing the field because men do as well. Until the exclusivity question comes into play, all bets are off.
 

insidious

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 16, 2005
Messages
611
Reaction score
17
Yeah man, PD, never heard that one.

But hey, in a way, aren't we all ostensibly PD's, or wannabe PD's? At least on this forum?
 

biofreeze

New Member
Joined
Apr 29, 2007
Messages
6
Reaction score
0
Thanks guys. At this point I'm hoping I can meet about 8 more just like her.
 
Top