"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Could she be a PD?

biofreeze

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First a little background: I used to frequent this site for tips a long time ago, got into a LTR and almost got married. Broke up a week before the wedding.

Now my first date since being free again. It went great. Got her laughing a lot. First kiss mid-way through the evening. Many more kisses followed, about half initiated by her.

I called her 3 days later just to tell her I would be out of town on business for 2 weeks and would call again after that. She said great, definitely wants to see me again.

The one thing that stands out as odd is that she didn't ask me any questions about myself except one: what I do for a living. Other than some other little tidbits I volunteered, she knows nothing about me. At least there's still some mystery and I didn't have to deflect any of those annoying "job interview" questions. But, could the lack of curiosity be a sign of a professional dater?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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violator

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So what if she is a PD? what do you care. You guys have just met.

Always assume that a girl you are just dating is playing the field because men do as well. Until the exclusivity question comes into play, all bets are off.
 

insidious

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Yeah man, PD, never heard that one.

But hey, in a way, aren't we all ostensibly PD's, or wannabe PD's? At least on this forum?
 

biofreeze

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Thanks guys. At this point I'm hoping I can meet about 8 more just like her.
 
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