"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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could my testosterone levels be getting lower?

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it seems for the last 6 or 7 months i haven't been really horned up. i wake up and my woman gives me a hug and then starts grabbing my butt and i know what she's thinking. heck i can't even brush my teeth without her going down for a bj. she's a sex fiend and it's awesome but i find alot of times, i don't really feel like going all the way. i feel like al bundy from married with children.

it's almost like the opposite of most relationships. most times it's the guy looking to get it on at all times but in my relationship it seems like it's the other way around. i am extremely attracted to my woman but man she's an animal.

one of my new years resolution is to start up the f@ck festival again and maybe visit the doctor to see if my sex levels are down. maybe it's because i'm 29 and she's 21. i am not depressed or anything but the job i've been doing for a while is really physical and that could be another reason why i'm not up to hanky panky.

anybody ever get like this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is this your wife?

If not, men get tired of the sex with the same hor all the time - especially if she is living with you!! You tired of her and it has nothing to do with testosterone!
 

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i love being around this girl. she is quite possibly the best woman i have come across in years and definetly a keeper. i guess it's like owning a new videogame system. when you first play it, your in heaven, but over time it loses its luster.

maybe thats what they invented sex shops for. ok cool
 

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insanity said:

generally the amount of T in your blood is variable day to day almost by circumstances , in fact a physical job should actually increase your T - levels.

but you notice a trend AND IT very might be the case..

as guys get older, their T-levels drop a little, do you suspect this to be the case as you are closing in on 30 ? THeres a big difference than the amount of T when you were 21.

Take one of T levels tests , ( should be done in a doctors check-ups ) and report that number back here. IT should be something between 400-900..

this is was the medical literature says..
 

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Spend some time apart.




You know how it works, I shouldn't need to explain it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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insanity said:
it seems for the last 6 or 7 months i haven't been really horned up. i wake up and my woman gives me a hug and then starts grabbing my butt and i know what she's thinking. heck i can't even brush my teeth without her going down for a bj. she's a sex fiend and it's awesome but i find alot of times, i don't really feel like going all the way. i feel like al bundy from married with children.

it's almost like the opposite of most relationships. most times it's the guy looking to get it on at all times but in my relationship it seems like it's the other way around. i am extremely attracted to my woman but man she's an animal.

one of my new years resolution is to start up the f@ck festival again and maybe visit the doctor to see if my sex levels are down. maybe it's because i'm 29 and she's 21. i am not depressed or anything but the job i've been doing for a while is really physical and that could be another reason why i'm not up to hanky panky.

anybody ever get like this?
yeah man.. time for a new woman. you are sick of your girlfriend. The end.
 

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Oh man. I FEEL your pain. This happens to me with everyone save for a handful of girls. The sickening truth is, she just doesn't do it for you sexually. No matter what's goin' down, you're mind determines how good it's gonna be. Oh man, I found this out the hard way. Take the time to find a girl that gets your blood rushing regularly. Trust me on this one, it IS worth it.
 

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Rex Man said:
Oh man. I FEEL your pain. This happens to me with everyone save for a handful of girls. The sickening truth is, she just doesn't do it for you sexually. No matter what's goin' down, you're mind determines how good it's gonna be. Oh man, I found this out the hard way. Take the time to find a girl that gets your blood rushing regularly. Trust me on this one, it IS worth it.

one reason i'm scared as hell of marriage.. this happens to me with every girl too..

Imagine feeling this way but being stuck in marriage!
 
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I had a woman with a 10 rated bodiy and one with a 10 rated face and one with a 10 rated body face and intellect! But I just get tired of hors --and hor attitudes - give me something I could hold on to ladies --something like femininity!! :rolleyes:

It's a bad and sad situation when women in this country have no femininity!! No reason to get MARRIED!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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worrrrrd
 

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I just read this book "Anytime: For As Long As You Want" by Dr. Charles Runels. Great read. So get it.

Basically, if you're ejaculating everytime you're having sex, then you're giving away all your energy, eventually leading to a lowered libido and, consequently, can be the catalyst to a "weak and dull" person. (Pun intended).

Check out the book, it's on Amazon.com. It talks about having sex and staying in the "Stimulation/Orgasm" zone, without having to cross into the "Ejaculation/Refractory Recovery" Period. What this means is, you can have literally all the sex you want, for as long as you want it, and, instead of losing your desire over time, you actually accumulate and build your desire even more. Exclamation mark.

Works wonders for me.

Peace.
 

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just do some kinky **** that turns you on man... she's not turning your mind on it seems... so you gotta turn it on yourself... nothing to do with testosterone... do it r. kelly style next time for example...
 
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