Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Could I use this to my advantage...?

jenzos

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Well. Im in my Junior year at my high school... Private school, took me a few years to get transitioned from public school. (two whole different worlds.) haha.

Well, freshman year I was pretty much pissed off at the world, for being sent to that hell hole. no ladies. not even any friends.

Sophmore year, i realized that i am recieving a better education than most, so i should be happy where I am. Started to make some friends.

But here is my question. Whenever someone talks about me or anything the usual response is "I think he hates me." When I don't even know the person. Thats pretty much how all the girls feel at my school.

Is there any way to change their minds? Just being nice? Or is there something better for the mysterious thing?

not sure if i worded that right, just post up some good advice. aiight peace.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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who says the "i think he hates me"

you? or your guy friends?

or is that what girls think about you?

i can't say i know what i'm talking about just yet. but im sure some other people will post "just smile at people... but not all of the time"
 

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Originally posted by MikeS
who says the "i think he hates me"

you? or your guy friends?

or is that what girls think about you?

i can't say i know what i'm talking about just yet. but im sure some other people will post "just smile at people... but not all of the time"
mostly girls say that...
 

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what about:
"how about we get to know each other before we say those kind of things."

?? dunno... i always thought i had game at times... ??

sometimes i definitely dont have any.. when im too shy
 

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Re: Re: Could I use this to my advantage...?

Originally posted by Don Rockstar
Charm
" why would anyone hate you?"

C+F
"yeah with ......... like that i can see why he hates you"

stop thinking so much.
thats what i was looking for thanksss
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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