"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Could I use this to my advantage...?

jenzos

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Well. Im in my Junior year at my high school... Private school, took me a few years to get transitioned from public school. (two whole different worlds.) haha.

Well, freshman year I was pretty much pissed off at the world, for being sent to that hell hole. no ladies. not even any friends.

Sophmore year, i realized that i am recieving a better education than most, so i should be happy where I am. Started to make some friends.

But here is my question. Whenever someone talks about me or anything the usual response is "I think he hates me." When I don't even know the person. Thats pretty much how all the girls feel at my school.

Is there any way to change their minds? Just being nice? Or is there something better for the mysterious thing?

not sure if i worded that right, just post up some good advice. aiight peace.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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who says the "i think he hates me"

you? or your guy friends?

or is that what girls think about you?

i can't say i know what i'm talking about just yet. but im sure some other people will post "just smile at people... but not all of the time"
 

jenzos

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Originally posted by MikeS
who says the "i think he hates me"

you? or your guy friends?

or is that what girls think about you?

i can't say i know what i'm talking about just yet. but im sure some other people will post "just smile at people... but not all of the time"
mostly girls say that...
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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what about:
"how about we get to know each other before we say those kind of things."

?? dunno... i always thought i had game at times... ??

sometimes i definitely dont have any.. when im too shy
 

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Re: Re: Could I use this to my advantage...?

Originally posted by Don Rockstar
Charm
" why would anyone hate you?"

C+F
"yeah with ......... like that i can see why he hates you"

stop thinking so much.
thats what i was looking for thanksss
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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