"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Could I say something?

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I read everything....once in a while...
I get "roasted" in a weird text ..

But I'm actually a nice guy with a good family and I made good investments, so I work when I want.

You guys have to be nice.
Maybe I'm too sensitive...my brothers clown on me for being too sensitive...but I thought this was a forum for therapy, talking about issues.
I know I'm the sensitive brother in my family....but that's a good quality.
My other brother is a closed book...
I would rather live sharing my faults, instead of living like an old man, never sharing his thoughts
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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...for me it's difficult to "connect"
I was military, amputating legs...cutting people open...daily...8 hours a day... sometimes double shift ..just blood and bodies open.
So I just wanted to go home and listen to music, or jump rope, alone...so girls were weirded out by my habits...to want to be left alone after work



I'm sure you all have stressful jobs and just want to relax ...
It's just different
 

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You guys have to be nice.
Maybe I'm too sensitive...my brothers clown on me for being too sensitive...
If a great many individuals who aren't in cahoots with one another in some way are regulalry observing that you stink, chances are high that your ass could benefit from a washing, and that your current deodorant is weak
 
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