"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Could I pull her?

Bigg Boss

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I know these 2 chicks (we'll call em Jamie and Koree). I used to mess with Jamie back in September and she was completely all over me. But her close friend Koree knew this other chick I was messin with and told Jamie so from then on Jamie thought I was sneaky (Jamie also knows of another chick I talk to). But nevertheless, she still shows me alot of love but I can tell she doesn't trust me. She's all smiles when she sees me but hardly answers her phone anymore.


Anyway, I spoke to Koree online today and we had good conversation (didn't bring up Jamie). Long story short, I tell her to give me her number (and i gave her mine) and I'll hit her up so we could kick it some time and she conceded. Now my question is, is this just on some friend shyt like "you and my close friend are cool so here's my number" type shyt? Could I pull her?

To add a slight twist to it, during our convo she spoke of a friend of hers, Kaylan, that I didn't know personally. I told her I didn't know her and at the end of the convo I said "we gotta kick it sometime tho, kaylan too if she cool as u and jamie lol", so that I could keep both doors open.

Now how should I approach this situation? She said she's not going anywhere tonight and shes just gonna be drinkin. I'm prolly not gonna hit her up though, idk. Also, who should I go after, Koree or Kaylan? They are both very attractive, I'll add.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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man i would hang out with Koree and gauge the situation, kino, make her laugh, etc. If she is into you go for her, if not, then she probably told her friend about ur games so your probably outta luck with her....
 

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both if your really good...............one if you are average, none if you a wannabe
 
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