"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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could i have done something better?

mtllcanpssy

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Alright so im walking to class and this girl i know (she doesnt really acknowledge me all that much n i could try to get a convo with her but its like impossible for me with her HER) is coming my way and a friend of mine shes like hey n gives me a five. N then i was like wtf!? wheres mine. ya know. (no i dont think she really likes that, like not sexually but watever) i didnt go up to her n b like y didnt u give me one. Just wondering if u think i did the right thing by ignoring her or if i shuda gone up to her on way to class. n also wondering if maybe i shud have said something to her, wat shud it have been. thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ARGH_Dude

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Dude, what you could've done and what you did do are two different things. It's in the past.

Next time something like this happens, do what your mind tells you to. If you feel like screaming out "WHERE'S MINE?!"...do it. Girls like guys for themselves, and you'd be exactly this. If she rejects you, move on...she's not the only fish in this ocean. You've got nothing to lose. ;)
 

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Is this a serious thread? WHAT THE **** HAVE YOU DONE WITH YOUR LIFE?! WHY DO SUCH THINGS EVEN CROSS YOUR MIND?! YOU SHALLOW SHALLOW PERSON.

Lik
 

gav

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Is this a serious thread? WHAT THE **** HAVE YOU DONE WITH YOUR LIFE?! WHY DO SUCH THINGS EVEN CROSS YOUR MIND?! YOU SHALLOW SHALLOW PERSON.

Lik
lmao

ure not shallow m8, ure just analysing too much
 
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