Could I be gay?

[FortunateSon]

I'm a young man, a virgin, and I am in no rush to have sex and I have no desire to have sex, yet I find myself masturbating to porn every other day, I am sexual attracted to women, not men, but for some reason I don't feel any desire to have sex -- could I be gay? A female friend of mine says that I am probably gay but don't realise it yet.

 

[Vice]

Check the link in my profile; porn is the problem, not your sexual orientation. Your motivation and libido is being sapped by excessive porn use.

And female friends are never any good for male-related advice.

 

[pipe007]

a very sad conclusion from your friend to say you might be gay.

first of all being gay means that you are emotionally and physically attracted (sexual attraction) to same people of your gender, in this case to other guys?

how old are you?

Do you think, or have you felt sexual or emotional attraction for guys, ever?
do you masturbate to porn involving heterosexual intercourse, or gay porn?

do you feel attracted to girls ever?

 

[iwanttofight]

If your not sure if your gay or not than the chances are your probably gay bro. But the weird thing is you rub one off to straight porn, not gay porn. You could be straight but just very insecure, not wanting to do it in real, just my opinion

 

[pdx1138]

The way a lot of women act these days, I almost wish I was gay...

 

[FortunateSon]

first of all being gay means that you are emotionally and physically attracted (sexual attraction) to same people of your gender, in this case to other

how old are you?

Do you think, or have you felt sexual or emotional attraction for guys, ever?
do you masturbate to porn involving heterosexual intercourse, or gay porn?

do you feel attracted to girls ever?

I am not attracted to men at all.

I am 23.

I have never felt sexual or emotional attraction to men.

I masturbate to heterosexual porn and occasionally lesbian porn.

 

[SgtSplacker]

It is common knowledge that excessive porn use not only totally squashes sexual desire. But causes the need to elevate your stimulation to porn by viewing harder material.

Basically lots of people look at pornographic material online that they would not really do in person. Straight guys look at gay porn or bestiality. Gay guys elevate to look at rape and pedophilia. Because the brain needs more dopamine to achieve the same orgasm, as you get use to more online content. It's all caused by the bodys reaction to dopamine, and it's normal and natural your not gay until you know you are basically.

Check out yourbrainonporn.com it's ALL there...

Basically masturbating is not such a bad thing but the porn is.

 

[Desdinova]

Moved to Anything Else...

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

When you beat your meat you beat all the testosterone in you and you have no desire to have sex with females. It's proven.

 

[Strelok]

Stop watching porn, eat healthy and hit the gym with increasing aggressivity, getting pissed off at people can help as well to raise your hormones.

Once you dont masturbate for weeks your libido will grow, pushing hard weights at gym will help as well.

Your first enemy that push you to masturbate is being bored, if you have no libido the reason for you to masturbate is looking for a dopamine release cause you dont get any in your life, typical for a guy grown in a middle class family that smother him in safety and boring safe life.
So hit the gym and start a sport,it can be hard in the beginning but passed the first two weeks it will be great.

Even an addictive videogame can be a patch for the short term as long as you get rid of it in a couple of weeks once your life is stabilized, anyway stop jerking off to porn, it mess your body and your brain if abused.
See it as a collateral from a stressful day when you need to relax.

And most of all stop listening at "female friends" trying to use you to create some soap opera storyline turning you into gay for her own amusement, they talk bvllsh1t all the time
even more when it comes of sexual suggestions and the opportunity to create some drama.
I can see that b1tch bragging with her friends about how she helped a gay guy to discover himself, you just have to put her in her place and choke her with your c0ck.

 

[Groovy]

obviously excess masturbation

I am not attracted to men at all.

so you aer ot atracted to men
and you wonder you are gay»?

you cant masturbate this much at this moment, twice a day.

yu are getting irrational thinking

i woudl stop amsdturbating

i would suggest taking herbs, may not be necessary tho

 

[Vice]

In short, you're not gay. You just watch porn too much. Trust me, I had my own period of doubt for a week or two, but I realized that I have been attracted to women ever since I was a little kid (trying to peep at women in changing rooms, staring at the women advertised when my mom took me to Victoria's Secret with her, playing "doctor" with female friends).

And I go to a gay friendly bar at least once a week to meet chicks, and I'm very comfortable with my sexuality. The girls at those bars love it. I have dudes hit on me, but the regulars know I'm straight and will always hook me up with their female friends.

So this is a good thing; you're going to find out that you're perfectly normal, and you will never have to worry about this sh*t again.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Do you find men attractive? You might be gay.

Do you find women attractive? You might be straight.

Do you find both men and women attractive? You might be bisexual.

Do you find nobody attractive? You might be asexual or maybe you're wasting all the good sexual energy on porn.

 

[Alle_Gory]

When you beat your meat you beat all the testosterone in you and you have no desire to have sex with females. It's proven.

No it's actually worse than that. You deplete the dopamine in the brain and wire yourself for porn instead of real women.

Dopamine is one of the two reward chemicals in your brain. It's pretty much what reinforces behaviour and helps you feel good when you do something you like.

 

[DJnoob]

I'm a young man, a virgin, and I am in no rush to have sex and I have no desire to have sex, yet I find myself masturbating to porn every other day, I am sexual attracted to women, not men, but for some reason I don't feel any desire to have sex -- could I be gay? A female friend of mine says that I am probably gay but don't realise it yet.

1. ) So, from someone who isnt interested in women, do you receive alot of attention from women then??

You ignore them even the hot ones..

You don't pretend to ignore them..you REALLY ignore them..

2) So, tell us what reaction you receive from women in general?????

 

[Mike32ct]

I'm with Vice. I'm quite sure you are straight. The porn is taking away your s@x drive.

Forget what you female friend said. If I had a nickel for every female that called me gay...

I'm straight as an arrow. I don't care what anybody says.

 

[Kerpal]

You're not gay unless you're sexually attracted to other men and not attracted to women. That's the definition of gay.

 

[Mr.Positive]

You are not gay. Seriously, don't worry about it. You are a normal young guy, coming into his own...If your female friend says you might be and don't realize it yet...prove her wrong and bang her.

She won't think you could be gay after you gave her some good lovin'. Just a suggestion.

 

[sodbuster]

Had a good looking woman ask me that .... ONCE. I told her anytime she wanted to be proven wrong,give me a call.

 

[Jitterbug]

Ask your female friend to help you figure out if you're a closet gay or not. Say you need to experiment with a female to help your research, and since she's so intuitive about your apparent gayness, she is the perfect candidate for it.