backseatjuan
Banned
Please let me ask you an honest question. First, could you click here and look at this picture. Please tell me what this photo makes you feel?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Could I ask you all a question?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
backseatjuan
Banned
^This.
You know what this is? This is a manument in Poland to Stepan Bandera. United States, wikipedia, and Ukraine praise this World War 2 criminal. Ukraine's maidan revolution praised this hero and had several regions separate from country in a blink of an eye. United States praises this World War 2 criminal, and is now helping Ukraine fight the "terrorists" and "separatists" that do not agree with the Nazi War Criminal supporting regime.
P.S. Ukraine officially voted, and it is official now, there is no human rights in Ukraine. United States supports this.
You know what this is? This is a manument in Poland to Stepan Bandera. United States, wikipedia, and Ukraine praise this World War 2 criminal. Ukraine's maidan revolution praised this hero and had several regions separate from country in a blink of an eye. United States praises this World War 2 criminal, and is now helping Ukraine fight the "terrorists" and "separatists" that do not agree with the Nazi War Criminal supporting regime.
P.S. Ukraine officially voted, and it is official now, there is no human rights in Ukraine. United States supports this.