Could have been lying??

[oakraiderz2]

Ok, this girl that im kinda seeing and do stuff with last night told me that she thought that she was pregnant. When she told me i got scared but i kinda thought that she was lying about it. THere were just somethings that didnt match up which made me think she was being sketchy. Then about 30 min after she told me she said that she just had her period...what a coincidenece. All this shyt makes me think she made it all up but i dunno how i can find out if she really did..What should i do?

 

[LikRetsam]

Maybe you should type clearly and correctly so we can understand you and maybe you should detail a bit more. Did you have sex with her without birth control methods?

 

[imnexthere]

First of all I think It goes without saying that if you can prove she lied, or even have real good reasons to think that she did, you need to show her the door. There is little excuse for lying and absolutely none for lying about something so important.

Second, ask her specifics. What made you think you are pregnant? When did you first realize? Its easy to lie and say “Well I thought I was pregnant, I was late” and be able to repeat it accurately. It’s a lot harder to say “Well I first noticed on this date, I was late this many days, I was suspicious after this specific time we did it” and be able to repeat it without screwing up at least one of the numbers.

Thirdly, don’t tell me you stuck it in with no condom? Don’t be doing that again. You don’t need to be no baby’s daddy at age 17.

Finally, you may want to seriously think about the kind of girl she is. If you have honest suspicions about her telling the truth than either you are a psycho and paranoid (unlikely) or she had done sketchy things in the past (probably).

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by LikRetsam
Maybe you should type clearly and correctly so we can understand you and maybe you should detail a bit more. Did you have sex with her without birth control methods?

If you dont understand, dont respond.

Anyway, she told me that she was late and that one time we did it that it hurt. Another time she said that it hurt cause there wasnt enough forplay. I just think its how how a little bit afterwards she said she just had her period. I had a feelings it was bs also. She said she was afriad the last time we did it cause her mom and grandma had a dream that she got pregnant. But last night she told me that it was cause she thought she was. Which doesnt make sense.

 

[LikRetsam]

make her take a test.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by LikRetsam
make her take a test.

She said she had her period while we were talkin last night. I know shes not but i just kinda think that she never even thought she was and that she was just ****ing with my head or something.