"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cougars go maternal on me

PapiChulo

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Is it common for mature women to be affectionate in a kind of motherly way? They are old enough to be my mom, but it somewhat creeps me out at times. I am getting all flirty and sexual, and here they are grabbing my cheek or whatnot. One even told me that I was her "baby". Is it sexual or not? Should I call them "Mom" when I pork one of those?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kool4Katz

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LOL kinky **** huh?? Try whatever works on them, but I highly doubt many or any want to be called "mom.":eek:

Oh yea- WHERE do you meet them? What situations? What's your approach?
 

LoneWolf

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Yes, well for me. The woman I was seeing when I went to stay with her overseas was like that. Not too much but she kept buying me everything (can't complain) - and still buys me stuff and sends it to me. Makes me food, takes me out to dinner lol. We even play ps3 together in the same house. She's pretty cool for a 40 year old.
 

Mike32ct

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Do you look young for 26? If you do, it's great for the young hotties. The tradeoff is you might have some older cougs not take you seriously.

I got into this game late, so it hasn't been an issue for me. But I can totally see how some young bucks might get the maternal stuff.

I would flirt back more outrageously. Worst case, they will laugh and be flattered.

Coug: You're my baby.

Papi: You're mine too hon. Can we get married lol?

Cough: Im too old for you sweety.

Papi: I want a mature lady that can spoil me lol.

All while kinoing, like hand on her back.
Alternatively, if you are on the prowl for cougs, grow some facial hair to look older.
 

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Just roll with the punches. Dance like nobody's watching!

There was an administrative assistant who had problems with her Lexus and after I fixed it, her little short ass started bringing the claws out! She even got word that I was a popular student at my university, and it seemed she wanted to have me before one of her sorors did.

One time, she was with some of her friends and her sister, and I remember how she lit up when she saw me! And she was all hugs and kisses with me in front of her girls! While her friends weren't approving that romance, she sure was! Maybe because they were beaten to the punch. :p

I love older women. Don't worry about age. If she states her age, you're 2 years older. If a woman's attractive, go for it!

This one stated above got sexier a month later (got her teeth fixed after smoking all those Marlboro's, wore heels more, and gave me the occasional ass grab!) And this is a married woman who told me she was old enough to be my mom!

Older women can get maternal with your young ass. I like to mess with those who are shorter than me (I'm 6'2") because I can press up on them, and they start getting seductive. My next move? I pick these women up off the damn ground and I just might be in chambers! :cool:

If you like older women and cougars, go for it! Be sure to be sexual! Court's orders. :yes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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