"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cougar Played Hard To Get

Scars

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AlexDP said:
It doesn't work that way, mate. You couldn't get the cougar. This means you're not particularly goodlooking, funny or virile. Otherwise she would have gone with you. If the cougar doesn't want you, the quality pvssy doesn't want you either. And why would she? She can obviously have better guys. Hell, the cougar can get better guys. So no matter what you think, you should work on improving yourself. Higher standards doesn't mean you get to bang beautiful women all of a sudden. It just means you don't have to go through the process of begging a 60 year old for sex. Which is good in itself though.
Co-sign.

-Scars
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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aura

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LOL, butthurt drama from guys giving props to dudes who beg 63 year olds for bj's! have a good weekend working the gay bars!
 

SamTheHobit

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I loled at the title.
 

Jaylan

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^How do you know the 63 year old wasnt banging and in great shape? Check out some of the over 55 folks on bodybuilding.com. Youd be surprised.

Attractive is attractive. Dont hate when you arent getting your d!ck wet brah
 

Zarky

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That's nothing, I'm dating two 80-somethings right now, one is in an iron lung. They took me 17 minutes and 145 minutes, respectively, to game. The toughest part was getting their nurses to unhook them from the EKG machines while we screwed.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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AlexDP said:
It doesn't work that way, mate. You couldn't get the cougar. This means you're not particularly goodlooking, funny or virile. Otherwise she would have gone with you. If the cougar doesn't want you, the quality pvssy doesn't want you either. And why would she? She can obviously have better guys. Hell, the cougar can get better guys. So no matter what you think, you should work on improving yourself. Higher standards doesn't mean you get to bang beautiful women all of a sudden. It just means you don't have to go through the process of begging a 60 year old for sex. Which is good in itself though.
QFT.

Women, regardless of age, have lots of options. Call it what you want, but pu$$y has no face, any love is better than no love, and many men know goddamn well that they appear and feel desirable as long as they have at least ONE woman. OP, this girl just wasn't that into you. Being out with a woman who's 63 and enjoying me is far better than being out watching it from the damn sidelines. Hey, it's better than nothing. I didn't wanna be in my room playing Zelda.
 

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She probably wasn't feeling ya bro, if she had she wouldnt have made it so hard. Anyways, good job on ejecting, you really shouldn't waste too much time on one of those old h0s when you could be going for something younger and cuter.
 
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