Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Cougar Chasers, Embrace Yourself.

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Time Magazine reported that women 27-45 are more sexually industrious than the college girls-gone-wilds. What do you think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I would agree with that -- I think older women have gotten some understandings in line beyond naieve college sexual experiences -- they are equipped. I've been into older gals for awhile, so much less BS (it's still there but less). The woman I'm talking to now is 39 (I'm 25) and honestly it is a kind breeze at times, an actual intellectual challenge!
 

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why i don't read time magziine now. they sold out a long time ago.



young women **** for the sake of ****ing. you can be on a date with a 20 year old, and then she say him im' bord let's ****. this is actually quite normal. the act of ****ing is still new and exciting.

older women **** to get something. they **** to keep a man, to get a man, to get a car, to get money, but rarley do they **** for the sake of ****ing.

the best sex you will ever have is with a buck wild 19 year old. sex has nothing to do with experience, hell hookers are experienced and most hookers couldn't make me nut if their life depended on it.

good sex is about being excited. give me a newbie who whose sole mission is to wear my ass out over 'exerience" any day.
 

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Back when I was sarging harcore I always tried to go at least once a week to a place I knew had cougars. Are they better or worse than 19-20 year olds? Probably not. But it s a different game, and one that I enjoyed a lot.

It s a fact though that it is easier to hook up with and maintain a strict fvck buddy relationship with a hot 35 y.o. still on the market than with a hot 22 y.o. (Unless we talking about the frat house wh0re)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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backbreaker said:
....give me a newbie who whose sole mission is to wear my ass out ....
Had to read that part twice to make sure i understood:eek:
:kick:
 

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Fwiw

I was once banging this recently divorced MILF. In the middle of the act, something happened irked me. I stood up to leave, and as I was reaching down to put on my pants, she ran over, got on her knees in front of me, and asked me not to go before she started blowing me.

older women are more desperate, so they value you more, and will generally test less and be more appreciative.

You can get that same level of attention/appreciation from younger girls, but sometimes you've got to work more to create it, and maintain.

Simple economics. Treated as a commodity, older women are a buyers market, younger women are a sellers market.

You can still make some pretty good deals either way though, if you know how to negotiate.
 

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TRUE DAT..........I concure with the above statement.

Older chics do have different drama but its still drama.

Work the vagina, who cares how old they are

cougar chasers are referred to as CUBS. The term cougar-the consensus is women DO NOT like being refered to as a cougar. The show cougar town actually got pulled and may not return even though they are seeking a new name.

Sheesh chics
 

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so my son and i were kicking it today, and i decided to go ahead and do something half ass constructive and go to the grocery store. i took him with me, as he like all kids, likes to get under the buggy and pretend like he's driving.

anyway, i'm not paying any attention, i have my little grocery list, picking up this and picking up that. i look at my son he's just staring at something really hard. i'm like dude what's up. he says "daddy why she following us?" i turned around and there was this woman, pnothing robably mid 30's and she had this red look on her face.. lol, absolutely in her grocery basket. i wanted to cry laughing, but i just turned around and said "you have to excuse him, how are you doing" with a smile, and she said fine and i walked off. we had made it to about the middle of the store, he just wouldn't leave it alone "she follow us daddy"

there is no doubt in my mind she was trailing me around the grocery store. she saw me with a kid, figured he was my son and figured who in the hell goes grocery shopping (men) with their son unless they are single. if i had to take a stab she was probably 36-37. not half bad looking. not a notch or anything but not bad looking.

so,10 years earlier when she was 26-27, you think she would be following some random guy around the grocery store regardless of how hot he is or whatever?

it's no sexual revolution, it's desperation. they are spreading their legs to keep you attentive. the irony is, these are usually the same women that 15 years earlier, wanted nothing to do with you.
 
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