"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cougar Advice

KillShot

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so met this older women at the bar Saturday..my friend and I were in the middle of 4 seats and she asked us to move down nicely so she could sit next to her friend. I said how about you sit in the middle. and she complied.

Fast forward to great conversation, she is talking to me super close and what not. I immediately build rapport and give her my phone to enter her phone she enters it as Natalie Needs Sex, I later find out she is married...

So her husband shows up, she tells me they are going through a divorce but nothing is finalized and that he has only effed her 3 times in the year they have been married and isnt physical at all.

So husband goes downstairs to hang with friends with no communication with "wife" she is upstairs I grab her and friend and made out with her.

Then take her downstairs outside for broomball, she grabs me on the dock and is making out with me and kissing my neck.

Message her a few days later as we had made plans for Wednesday and I said are we still meeting up on Wednesday and she says I want an affair but couldnt live with myself if I had one. I respond no problem, I want whats best for you and just want to be a friend and she responded very nicely.

What is my game plan to getting with this girl? she is a 41 year old ballerina with an amazing body, definitely know many men have been killed doing what I am trying to do so trying to respect that boundry.

Do I just hang out with her as a friend until the divorce is finalize and/or she moves out on her own?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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fuko2007

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Man, im in my mid-20's and all i seem to attract are good looking cougars. so with that said i can tell you they all know what they want. its up to you to figure out how she does things. through my experience they look at us young guys as haveing less experience than them so they seem to take the lead but not always. i have had to lead before. if yall hang out one or two times and are alone test the waters a bit. you might flip her switch and its on. whats the worse thing that could happen? she says no? NEXT. but i carry a gun on me at all times now. i was banging this one girl and took her to her car and her husband was there. she said they were divorced but ended up being they were only seperated. so its one of those things if you do get involved with be ready to watch your own back. and oh yeh...go to your local gunshop and invest in a Glock 22 is the full frame .40cal easy to control and if you run out of rounds its heavy so u can throw it at him.
 

KillShot

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lol dont want to run for my life, so maybe best for her to be seperated or have her own place before i make a move?
 

fuko2007

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yeh, i would wait untill they are seperated but still be carefull. if its her that wanted the seperation and two days after your ****ing the crap out of her and he finds out it could not end well at all.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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