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Master Don Juan
kudos to you for not being herded into some corral, like most sheep.
I am inspired!
I am inspired!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Let's see some pics of these girls. Until then, it never happened.wolf116 said:I have a comment on my couchsurfing profile from a hot German girl about dumpster diving with me if someone would like to verify (I'd prefer iggi or Kerpal to check as we go back).
I have no reason to lie about this, I have nothing to sell and no one to impress as I no longer hang out here. I just want to help you guys because I took so much from this place. Yes you have to get a visa and yes I call girls from Europe European, since I have a thing for girls from any country in Europe. That isn't even one of my good stories, I've had a threesome in a backpackers with two Brazilians and been skinning dipping with over ten others and a girl under each arm. Back home I got nothing.
This can be sustained into your 40's at least. Once you have experience you can work snow seasons, bar work, be a river guide, diving instructor, pick fruit or just do freelance writing, programming, graphic design using the skills you taught yourself along the way. I know a 60yo who makes good money just teaching English in Asia and eastern Europe. After that I could even go back to university and get a degree but my plan is to become a journalist. You can also do things like work a regular job 6 months of every year and hang out in Asia or south America for the rest. Read the vagerbonding book, that guy is getting on. I've met many people who have been doing this for at least 10 years.
I can't understand why a person would waste their 20's chasing a career, this is your prime!
You will always get haters, but that will never phase you when you are having the best time of your life.
If you like working day in and day out than good for you, but I can't live that life.
Here's a blog of a PUA from 'the game' living a similar life http://tynan.net/ and http://www.rooshv.com/
Sounds like you are having the best time of your life too!wolf116 said:You will always get haters, but that will never phase you when you are having the best time of your life.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I do bike tours across the USA with different groups and my entire life paradigm has changed greatly since I have started travelling. I just wish more people would go with me from my area so they understand the difficulty and leap of faith it takes to do this sort of life style.Mr.Positive said:Yes, the travelling man generally meets tons of women. More people should try it, especially guys on this site.
Eh, anyone can go pull up a few pics of girls from some East European social networking site. Seriously, it is so silly that only a teenage boy in America would believe it. Dumpster diving? Uh, no decent girl is going to get turned on by a guy who is a bum. That is insane. The problem with this forum is too many young boys have been watching too much Hollywood crap and have mothers who are horrible at mothering.Bluntmaster said:Let's see some pics of these girls. Until then, it never happened.
park bench surfing.Matt281 said:Finally, do you find you can find somewhere to sleep most nights through couch surfing? what do you do when you can't?
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
But can they pull up pitures with themselves in the photo. The couchsurfing references can not be forged. they include a photo. She's a media student, and is now looking to do a small documentary on it.BigJimbo said:Eh, anyone can go pull up a few pics of girls from some East European social networking site. Seriously, it is so silly that only a teenage boy in America would believe it. Dumpster diving? Uh, no decent girl is going to get turned on by a guy who is a bum. That is insane. The problem with this forum is too many young boys have been watching too much Hollywood crap and have mothers who are horrible at mothering.
Lets not forget. America makes people think that money is not important. Only in places like England, America, Canada, and Australia is it cool to NOT act wealthy. In other cultures people tend to flaunt what they have. Go watch how the girls go to their college classes in most East European countries. TOTALLY different than what you see on the hell that is American campuses. TOTALLY!!! The girls flaunt their looks and dress to kill.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T7h_TcUSXlA
Eh, just go to one of the Bulgarian social networking sites (Limpa is big in many East European places) and say that one of these girls wants to dumpster dive with you :crackup: . If you know anything about East European girls you know how funny that sounds. Now, if you step out of a nice hotel, or if you step out of a nice bar/cafe you might just feel like the luckiest man alive. It isn't an Anglo worldThose girls can smell money a mile away.
Learn to eat cheaply, oatmeal, ground beef, beans, eggs, veggie markets.Matt281 said:I'm pretty set on doing the same thing for a year or two. I guess I should read Vagabonding, but for now:
Beyond dumpster diving, what can you do for cheap food? This is the only thing I'm truly worried about if I just take off.
And work - someone mentioned you can't do most jobs in europe without a work visa, plus in spain especially (where I want to start) the economy is quite bad - how do you find work? I mean, lots of people are having trouble finding work in America, much less while vagabonding few contacts or friends.
Finally, do you find you can find somewhere to sleep most nights through couch surfing? what do you do when you can't?
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