Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Montreal. I'm leaving in a week for Turkey for three weeks, but I'll give it a try once I return. I just hope my roommates are ok for people staying over if they leave at the same time as I do. If not, I can still meet them for drinks and whatnotjurry said:
Shivastorm_88 said:
Sounds like the script for Taken 3. Don't piss off Liam Neeson.Shivastorm_88 said:
basically idea is great and had one "success" but as guest not hostShivastorm_88 said:
I also sow at some page in how to catch women guide this method as one of those that works nice. point is to 'filter' host requests and on thay way drastically increase chances to get girl/woman ready to party Try and I am sure you will be lucky! I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.