You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Montreal. I'm leaving in a week for Turkey for three weeks, but I'll give it a try once I return. I just hope my roommates are ok for people staying over if they leave at the same time as I do. If not, I can still meet them for drinks and whatnotjurry said:
Shivastorm_88 said:
Sounds like the script for Taken 3. Don't piss off Liam Neeson.Shivastorm_88 said:
basically idea is great and had one "success" but as guest not hostShivastorm_88 said:
I also sow at some page in how to catch women guide this method as one of those that works nice. point is to 'filter' host requests and on thay way drastically increase chances to get girl/woman ready to party Try and I am sure you will be lucky! Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.