"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Cost of Car Insurance

Maestro Monk

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 8, 2005
Messages
76
Reaction score
0
Hi to all,

Insurance agencies have long since been the villains that have held me back from pimpin' it on four wheels.

I am forced to cough up the green for school over the next two years, so price quotes given to me from most agencies seem out of the question.

I have completed a driver's training course, and also have a clean record. Unfortunately, I cannot place my own third vehicle as an 'occasional operator' under my parent's plan, since it's limited to coverage on two vehicles, not three..which essentially means that I am forced to go with my own coverage plan.

I understand that my age and gender is likely going to place me in the highest premium range. This frustrates me considerably because I would literally be paying the price for many other's careless actions.

I'm curious to see what monthly/yearly rates some of you guys in my age bracket are paying..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

undesputable

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 7, 2004
Messages
1,365
Reaction score
0
Location
who cares
im on my parents plan as a second car and its about $1000/year.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Be prepared to pay at least $1200 a year for a single car until you reach 25 and then your rates will drop if you have a clean driving record.
 

Maestro Monk

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 8, 2005
Messages
76
Reaction score
0
Being from the great white north, where our dollar is worth less, I can expect to pay over 3 g's a year for insurance...i've yet to be quoted a lower annual figure than that. This is why I'll stick to riding shotgun with my friends until I'm finished paying for school.
 

TheRelic

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 28, 2004
Messages
580
Reaction score
0
Wow... they're really high figures. Its the same here too, I guess. I just have 3rd party + fire/theft...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

al77

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 13, 2005
Messages
1,264
Reaction score
0
Location
Great Lakes
Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Be prepared to pay at least $1200 a year for a single car until you reach 25 and then your rates will drop if you have a clean driving record.
I am not in that age bracket, but I have lots of points (5 or 6) and I pay $500 per year. My friend in who is of my age, with no points pays about $340 per year.
$1200 seems very high...
 

diablo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 2, 2004
Messages
4,678
Reaction score
9
Location
Louisiana, USA
Just get a motorcycle... from what I understand, insurance on them is somewhere around $30-50 a month. Of course, your health and life insurance would probably spike but it's always an option...
 

Maestro Monk

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 8, 2005
Messages
76
Reaction score
0
A bike sounds like a simple solution, but it isn't suited for daily commuting, nor the snowy winter climate up here in Canada. Diablo, if bike insurance is that cheap over there, I'll be packing my bags for the U.S. immediately after graduating. ;)
If all goes well, I hope to have my M1 (2 wheel learner's permit) by the end of August so that I can ride recreationally...I have yet to check rates, but from what I have heard they will be in the 300+ range per month for anything over 100cc's.

I'd like to re-direct the discussion back to the car issue. To the successful guys out there who DO NOT drive: it would be great to hear your words of wisdom. I'm interested in seeing what kinds of dates you arrange, and how you go about in doing it.
 
Top