Corey Wayne Ignore Her and Score?

[zekko]

Okay, I have to be somewhere but I just saw this and I want to post this real quick. It's one of Corey Wayne's videos which I thought was interesting, even though I didn't get to watch the whole thing.

Basically he's saying that when people talk about being indifferent, they don't mean be aloof. It just means don't be all focused on one target. In fact, Wayne says to always be chatting, flirting, and talking with women everywhere, wherever you go, even if they are married. Because it's good practice and keeps you in that frame of mind.

To me this is very different from being indifferent, this is actively putting yourself out there and firting with women. I don't see how you can call that indifferent or aloof.

The other thing that he says that caught my attention is this: He says that if you are talking to a married woman, you can say something like "Hey, maybe you can introduce me to one of your single friends or family members". I bring this up because I distinctly remember reading here that asking to be fixed up makes you look weak and desperate. Any thoughts on this?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fS9sC71IEGo

 

[Peña]

A lot of the advice you read is hypocritical and they do not mean what they claim. They say one thing and want it to be another. Guys in here call others betas but they are the ones beta bucking in bars trying to get laid. They are the real betas. Guys here will shame men calling them blue pill but live with and finance a divorced woman. They are the real blue pillers. In the end they are not who they really are and mean what they say. Just like with some of this Wayne's advice.

If you are indifferent and aloof you do not go around flirting, chatting up all women asking married women to hook you up with their single friends. Being indifferent and aloof means you do not care and do not seek out women to hit up all over the place. You let women come to you and really do not care if they do when you are aloof. Hypocritical advice that others here claim they are when they are not.

I agree the advice that you should talk with all the women you can. But that is false about being indifferent and aloof. If women are not attracted to you or lost interest being indifferent or aloof will not help you.

Married women and having single women as friends is good because they can hook you up with their hot single friends. I do not see that as being weak and desperate. If you are begging them to fix you up that is weak but having them help you get their hot friends is not. Women are great for that and they will hook you up when they like you.

 

[Building_and_Loan]

The other thing that he says that caught my attention is this: He says that if you are talking to a married woman, you can say something like "Hey, maybe you can introduce me to one of your single friends or family members". I bring this up because I distinctly remember reading here that asking to be fixed up makes you look weak and desperate. Any thoughts on this?

Yes, I think asking to be fixed up with someone kind of makes you look weak, and it also puts a burden on your friend or family member to fix you up with someone. You may not want to betray that friendship trust, or your friend/family member may not want to run the risk of a fix-up going really poorly and then getting blamed for it.

Now, taking your friend's offer of getting fixed up with someone is entirely different. No shame in accepting that, as the last few girls I've dated have come from that scenario. Nothing came from them, but I got some lays and had some good times.

IMO, you should usually take up someone's offer to have you set up with their friend or whatever, as long as they know you well enough. Obviously I would check her out on social media first to make sure she's not some ugly desperate chick lol, but chances are if your friend or family member is recommending a girl for you, there's a reason they thought you'd get along. What do you really have to lose?

 

[om1xr]

so he basically describe Bill Murray lol

 

[WanderingMan]

I havent watched the video yet. However, you can talk to people and still be indifferent. Eventually you will have to talk to women you're going to date, you can't get away with grunts and hand gestures for too long. I would believe the point is to be OUTCOME independent. Talk to people but be indifferent of the OUTCOME.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

I havent watched the video yet. However, you can talk to people and still be indifferent. Eventually you will have to talk to women you're going to date, you can't get away with grunts and hand gestures for too long. I would believe the point is to be OUTCOME independent. Talk to people but be indifferent of the OUTCOME.

This.

Action of other people should not influence you because what happens happens.

 

[Peterpack]

I'm not a fan of youtube advice which is just a guy talking at you

I much prefer demonstrations etc

 

[bigneil]

I would never ask to be set up. However, if they offer that's a great thing.

Corey's advice is normally very good.

 

[SmooveMooves]

How about just be friendly. I worked in retail for a while and at first I minded my own buisness but after I warmed up I found myself striking conversations with just about anyone and that's what really showed me how easy it was.

You see something witty? Share it with the person next to you with a smirk. You like a certain color a girls wearing? Tell her. Someone being a d1ck waiting in line? Tell the blonde chick behind you how you hate d1cks.

I wouldn't exactly say go around flirting with everyone, but being an open friendly person is a start. Also, don't confuse friendly with "try-hard". You know, that dude who smiles at everyone and needs someone to talk to. Just be the open cool guy.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mGmQmPJJe_s

Indifference and aloofness are very different things. I started doing the technique in this second video, just holding very simple/brief conversations with people when I'm out and about, like when he's in the supermarket. It works, it's just a confidence builder, in disarming people.

The secret is not to mention anyone's relationship status, because yes, that does make you look desperate. Just going about your life and allowing things to happen. People smell desperation a mile away.