"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Copulating with girls with overlapping social circles

blueline

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So I banged a new girl yesterday and totally ignored her today like a champ. I have a date with another girl that shares a couple friends with her.

While I've only ****ed the other girl twice, the sex we've had is kinda emotional and I get her talking about all sorts of personal **** afterwards. I know all of you guys want to be the Badboy, but truly, you can't just roll over and leave after fucking a girl. Besides, I like getting close with someone like that. I'd rather just not limit it to one person, I don't see the point of doing that. I actually enjoy having the girl's heart, that way you know nobody else is probably going to be fucking her. If I actually met a girl I felt was worthy, I would totally go one on one with her, but haven't. I do, however, know a bunch of girls that want to fuck me.

Dudes cheat on their girls all the time. How do you do this well without getting caught?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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