"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Copulating with girls with overlapping social circles

blueline

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So I banged a new girl yesterday and totally ignored her today like a champ. I have a date with another girl that shares a couple friends with her.

While I've only ****ed the other girl twice, the sex we've had is kinda emotional and I get her talking about all sorts of personal **** afterwards. I know all of you guys want to be the Badboy, but truly, you can't just roll over and leave after fucking a girl. Besides, I like getting close with someone like that. I'd rather just not limit it to one person, I don't see the point of doing that. I actually enjoy having the girl's heart, that way you know nobody else is probably going to be fucking her. If I actually met a girl I felt was worthy, I would totally go one on one with her, but haven't. I do, however, know a bunch of girls that want to fuck me.

Dudes cheat on their girls all the time. How do you do this well without getting caught?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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