"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cops

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There was an episode of The Man Show where they talked about the top chick-magnet jobs. #1 was firemen, #2 was cops. The hosts gave brief explanations of why women go for those guys, and for cops they said "women like men who can intimidate other guys."

I think there's truth to it. Cops are viewed as figures of power and authority, and that just does it for lots of women.
 

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Basically its about confidence, cops walk around the street confident and they act confident in all that they do as a cop, fireman act confident when they rush into a burning building. Ots bassically linked to confidence. The uniform has something to do with it too, but the reason i believe women find uniforms sexy is because the men who have worn a uniform throughout history have been confident people often risking their lifes for what they believe, so the uniform thing is deep rooted in a womens physc.
 
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They like guys with big long hard sticks!! :)
 
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