"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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coolest guy ever?

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recently, i've been getting closer to this guy who everybody had always spoken me extremely well about.
his classmates and everybody in his high school had always told me he's the funniest guy ever and that he is a major don juan.

when i got to know him better, i noticed that basically he does and says everything that comes to his mind.

now, i know lots of people who act like this, but nobody is perceived as him... actually they're often perceived as too loud and obnoxious, maybe funny, but not cool



i've been talking about this with some friends who know him and one of them said that maybe he manages to get around with doing and saying whatever he wants because he's pretty built (i don't see him as muscular though, he's 5'11 and 185 lbs)

another guy says that maybe it's because he talks with a soft voice, while other guys who do whatever they want usually talk with a loud tone of voice...

in my opinion, it's because he looks kinda crazy, so people think he's not trying too hard and he's not putting out a show to impress people... also, i can't get why people never try to make fun of him, even though he says lots of funny bullsh1t...


do any of you know guys like this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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yes.
is natural DJism.
he treats everyone like a good-friend whose he fvcks around with.
 

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yes. this is easy breezy!

The reason why hes so cool and everything is because he respects other people. If you respect other people then you get respect back from them.

But on the other hand, for the people he makes fun of, those are the people he KNOWS and he KNOWS that he can maek fun of them without them fighting back. The reason for this is because either the people he makes fun of is weaker than he is or those people are his close friends.

Also, the reason why people dont make fun of him is because nobody else does. If he's so popular and interesting, why would anyone want to make fun of him? Simply because if someone makes fun of him, he could have the power to lower that persons social status!
 

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Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
yes. this is easy breezy!

The reason why hes so cool and everything is because he respects other people. If you respect other people then you get respect back from them.

But on the other hand, for the people he makes fun of, those are the people he KNOWS and he KNOWS that he can maek fun of them without them fighting back. The reason for this is because either the people he makes fun of is weaker than he is or those people are his close friends.

Also, the reason why people dont make fun of him is because nobody else does. If he's so popular and interesting, why would anyone want to make fun of him? Simply because if someone makes fun of him, he could have the power to lower that persons social status!


patrick's and your replies are really good and true, beside one thing: he seems to respect people, but actually he makes fun of people 24/7... there was this drunk guy at a sleepover party who was asking for some toothpaste and CoolGuy gave him some jack daniel and said "that's toothpaste, man!"

anyway, maybe you're right... my brother knows this guy pretty well and says that he's so cool because he treats everybody else in a good fashion
 

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Originally posted by Jay-X
patrick's and your replies are really good and true, beside one thing: he seems to respect people, but actually he makes fun of people 24/7
The fellow must be witty and good at dissing. So, people must be avoiding getting into a verbal fight with him (who wants to get owned in front of others?). And the reason he is not hated is that he must be a really cool and fun loving fellow with a positive attitude. Plus, you said he is a don juan so he must be good with the girls, this increases his popularity.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by sinner
The fellow must be witty and good at dissing. So, people must be avoiding getting into a verbal fight with him (who wants to get owned in front of others?). And the reason he is not hated is that he must be a really cool and fun loving fellow with a positive attitude. Plus, you said he is a don juan so he must be good with the girls, this increases his popularity.

1. the strangest thing is that the only girl he's been seen with he's a fairly cute girl in his school, who's not extremely beautiful, let's say a 7. HOWEVER, he's this fame of being able to get every female in the club, although nobody's ever seen him approaching a girl or making out with any lady... it's just the impression he gives

2. i don't think he's extremely witty or good at dissing... actually, when someone tries to jokingly insult him, he just nods and smile the way you do at children...
 

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Just smiling:crackup:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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one thing i've noticed is that this guy's attitude is somehow similar to homer simpson's... i'm dead on serious, they have lots of stuff in common
 

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the coolest guy at my old school had this attitude of respect for everyone. he was confident, i dont mean a little confident it was as if confidence came from this guy as if he invented it. But this attitude of respect was sort of done in a jokingly way he treated everyone like his mate. He was amazing at all sports nearly and intelligant as well, at the same time was a bit of a rebel in class.
I think everyone respected him, he wasn't violent, he didnt act like the 'hard alpha male' and very rarely got into fights although he looked very tough.

i better stop now or ill sound gay, he was cool i respected him and asspire to one day be like him but not an exact clone of him.
 

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Originally posted by shadowfox
the coolest guy at my old school had this attitude of respect for everyone. he was confident, i dont mean a little confident it was as if confidence came from this guy as if he invented it. But this attitude of respect was sort of done in a jokingly way he treated everyone like his mate. He was amazing at all sports nearly and intelligant as well, at the same time was a bit of a rebel in class.
I think everyone respected him, he wasn't violent, he didnt act like the 'hard alpha male' and very rarely got into fights although he looked very tough.

i better stop now or ill sound gay, he was cool i respected him and asspire to one day be like him but not an exact clone of him.

don't worry about sounding gay (besides the "asspire":D), we're just discussing about cool people in order to become cooler ourselves

the guy i know sounds very similar to the guy you're talking about, good at sports, good grades without studying much, rebel in class (in which ways was he rebel?)

the guy i know never acts like the hard alpha male, but he gets pretty violent when he drinks... i mean, if you say something against him, he will push you hard away. but it's always up to you to start a real fight with him
 

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lol at the 'asspire'

i meant rebel in class in that he never did much work (i woudnt recomend this, this kid was inteliigent at minimum all bs at gcse if he worked to his potential as/a*s) he liked to joke around with the people around him. Centre of class discussion most of time but it wasnt really about work. Because he talked too much to those around him who diddnt seem to mind the teachers would try and stop him to which he would give a cheeky response if the teacher wasnt really a respected teacher. He also broke a window by falling into it when these older lads where fighting him. Instead of laying down and being a victim he just laughed and said "we where just messin around.. as you do" when the teacher asked him about it.
 

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Originally posted by shadowfox
lol at the 'asspire'

i meant rebel in class in that he never did much work (i woudnt recomend this, this kid was inteliigent at minimum all bs at gcse if he worked to his potential as/a*s) he liked to joke around with the people around him. Centre of class discussion most of time but it wasnt really about work. Because he talked too much to those around him who diddnt seem to mind the teachers would try and stop him to which he would give a cheeky response if the teacher wasnt really a respected teacher. He also broke a window by falling into it when these older lads where fighting him. Instead of laying down and being a victim he just laughed and said "we where just messin around.. as you do" when the teacher asked him about it.

lol, i'd like to know this guy:)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thats me lol :)
 

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Jay,

just use some kino, a little C&F, and then while he's asleep go down on him. guys love that and you'll be with him in no time.

let us know!
 

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Originally posted by Porky
Jay,

just use some kino, a little C&F, and then while he's asleep go down on him. guys love that and you'll be with him in no time.

let us know!

did you assfinger yourself while thinking about me and him hooking up?

let us know!
 
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