"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
Thanks.
Slimijs
Senior Don Juan
To make me ***! :crackup:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
This may be because I'm an old fart, but the exclusive articles sound as if they were written by bitter AFCs.
Hendrix
Don Juan
I was just about to say that...you hit it on the head (one post up)
i don't think it is anything wrong with venting about women. alot of people keep their feelings bottled up and start doing self destructive things. alot of the stuff he writes is pretty on point in my book because women are very disrespectful towards men...especially western women. the things most men put up with for some pu$$y is ridiculous.
the article i like the best is the one about not getting married. i would never marry an american women considering the rise (over 65%) in divorce and how women initiate them. futhermore i can't see myself being faithful to a woman forever no matter how much i "love" her or how attractive she is. also he has great things about how a man needs to define his own life and stop worrying about what skirts think all the goddamn time. the site in my book is saying MAN UP!!
the article i like the best is the one about not getting married. i would never marry an american women considering the rise (over 65%) in divorce and how women initiate them. futhermore i can't see myself being faithful to a woman forever no matter how much i "love" her or how attractive she is. also he has great things about how a man needs to define his own life and stop worrying about what skirts think all the goddamn time. the site in my book is saying MAN UP!!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It just sounds like you guys need to stop wasting time with women like that and just focus on higher quality women.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Perhaps. Ever wonder if there is a corollary between their negative attitude toward women and their success (or lack of) with women?
of course it is. if you have negative experiences with women you will have a negative attitude towards them. i don't know the guy who writes that stuff but i will say that i don't think he hates women. his articles are not bitter about not getting laid. i think he hates the overall disrespect women dish out to men. especially when it comes to how women manipulate the hell out of men to get what they want. and how western society justs sit back and support it. you see it in movies, tv, mags, etc. it's all bull$hit! i'm just glad somebody out there is recognizing the $hit and writing about it.....to each it's own though.
