"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
Thanks.
Slimijs
Senior Don Juan
To make me ***! :crackup:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
This may be because I'm an old fart, but the exclusive articles sound as if they were written by bitter AFCs.
Hendrix
Don Juan
I was just about to say that...you hit it on the head (one post up)
i don't think it is anything wrong with venting about women. alot of people keep their feelings bottled up and start doing self destructive things. alot of the stuff he writes is pretty on point in my book because women are very disrespectful towards men...especially western women. the things most men put up with for some pu$$y is ridiculous.
the article i like the best is the one about not getting married. i would never marry an american women considering the rise (over 65%) in divorce and how women initiate them. futhermore i can't see myself being faithful to a woman forever no matter how much i "love" her or how attractive she is. also he has great things about how a man needs to define his own life and stop worrying about what skirts think all the goddamn time. the site in my book is saying MAN UP!!
the article i like the best is the one about not getting married. i would never marry an american women considering the rise (over 65%) in divorce and how women initiate them. futhermore i can't see myself being faithful to a woman forever no matter how much i "love" her or how attractive she is. also he has great things about how a man needs to define his own life and stop worrying about what skirts think all the goddamn time. the site in my book is saying MAN UP!!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It just sounds like you guys need to stop wasting time with women like that and just focus on higher quality women.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Perhaps. Ever wonder if there is a corollary between their negative attitude toward women and their success (or lack of) with women?
of course it is. if you have negative experiences with women you will have a negative attitude towards them. i don't know the guy who writes that stuff but i will say that i don't think he hates women. his articles are not bitter about not getting laid. i think he hates the overall disrespect women dish out to men. especially when it comes to how women manipulate the hell out of men to get what they want. and how western society justs sit back and support it. you see it in movies, tv, mags, etc. it's all bull$hit! i'm just glad somebody out there is recognizing the $hit and writing about it.....to each it's own though.
