"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cool Cold Approach

L777

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Well I don't usually post approaches/FRs/LRs, but I thought this one was worth a mention.

After I finish a workout in the Gym, particularly if I have made a significant weight increase that day, (which is what happened today), I am always horny as hell, like, I can't help but stare at every single attractive girl between the gym and my flat (I usually don't approach cos I look like s.hit after a workout, sweaty, hair messy, old clothes etc.), but today I literally could have split some girl in half, so I decided to use this "state" to make a cold approach...its exactly what GW calls "sexual state".

Anyway, as its Easter, most of the girls on campus are foreign, mostly oriental, and there was this cute-ish one just standing outside the pizza shop. To be fair, I was probably slightly 'out of her league', as she was just about a 7 and I'd consider myself higher than this, so I knew it wouldn't really take game to pull her, assuming she was single.

Anyway, I gave her eye conact from about 10 yards, along with the mindset I described above, smiled, which she returned, and then stood next to her. Luckily she was English-Chinese, as in, spoke English as a first language, and she smiles and goes, 'what?' To which I replied..."let me get your phone number, I'm going to take you for a drink tomorrow, OK?"
She was obviously shocked, and she goes, "Are you serious?"
Then I go, "mm-mm" you know that noise I mean, it means 'yes'
She pauses, thinks for a few seconds, then gives me the number!
I smile, say nothing, then walk away.

I probs won't follow it up cos I wasn't overly attracted to her, but I thought I would post it as its the most direct approach I've done, and good evidence that GW method does work!! :D

PS: I realise this badly written, but like I said I don't usually do these. Thnx for reading!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Very nicely done... only ONE MISTAKE..... you HAVE TO FOLLOW UP... look how good you feel about doing the cold approach (even to a girl you "say" your not overly attracted to).. well in same line of thought, move to next base... and then try to seal the deal.. if it makes you feel better, think of it as practice..

however, you never know, she might be a freak and you will end up dating ;)
 

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L777 said:
I probs won't follow it up cos I wasn't overly attracted to her, but I thought I would post it as its the most direct approach I've done, and good evidence that GW method does work!! :D
I think it is more about showing that technical game is secondary to pure physical attraction and confidence.
 

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TruthHurts said:
Very nicely done... only ONE MISTAKE..... you HAVE TO FOLLOW UP... look how good you feel about doing the cold approach (even to a girl you "say" your not overly attracted to).. well in same line of thought, move to next base... and then try to seal the deal.. if it makes you feel better, think of it as practice..

however, you never know, she might be a freak and you will end up dating ;)
lol yea man...its always the ones you don't suspect! I think I will follow it up actually...I mean, if she's hot enough to have sex with, there's not a lot of point int NOT following it up is there.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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