"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cooking: Anyone with some good recipes

bachelor

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I'm trying to pick up on some new recipes to make for the ladies. Any PUA's out there know of some good dishes to make. I prefer making Italian or Spanish dishes. Also, wine pairings would be nice as well.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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wolf116

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I'm no PUA but I can cook.
It would be wise to make a very light dish with no garlic or onion. Chicken/fish with salad or something like that with a really nice sauce to make it tasty. The person at the bottle shop will tell you the right wine to get.

That way she won't feel fat, bloated, tired and self conscious about her breath.
Which means you won't be laying her that night.
 

everywomanshero

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Dude, I'm no chef but I've found some quick things that get good reviews.

Tilapia & blackening seasoning. Just put some on there and then fry it in a skillert for like 4 minutes or so on each side. Quick, easy, and don't try it on a first date because quite a few people dislike fish in general =) I usually just have some kind of rice with it and maybe a 1/3 of a salad.

Tortolina. This one takes no effort at all. Dump it in boiling water for a few minutes, just don't overcook it, and then add some Vodka pasta sauce (the orange crap). I use the 3 cheese torts, not the pork or chicken which look weird on the inside. I usually have salad and whatever the tastiest bread I can find locally. Lobster stuffed torts or rav also work the same.

The main thing that seems to matter is don't let her see the twist off wine bottle & make the food look elegantly laid out & such. They won't know the difference.

There are a few others I use but they take more preparation. These take less than 15 minutes and anyone could pull it off.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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