Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Cooking: Anyone with some good recipes

bachelor

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I'm trying to pick up on some new recipes to make for the ladies. Any PUA's out there know of some good dishes to make. I prefer making Italian or Spanish dishes. Also, wine pairings would be nice as well.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wolf116

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I'm no PUA but I can cook.
It would be wise to make a very light dish with no garlic or onion. Chicken/fish with salad or something like that with a really nice sauce to make it tasty. The person at the bottle shop will tell you the right wine to get.

That way she won't feel fat, bloated, tired and self conscious about her breath.
Which means you won't be laying her that night.
 

everywomanshero

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Dude, I'm no chef but I've found some quick things that get good reviews.

Tilapia & blackening seasoning. Just put some on there and then fry it in a skillert for like 4 minutes or so on each side. Quick, easy, and don't try it on a first date because quite a few people dislike fish in general =) I usually just have some kind of rice with it and maybe a 1/3 of a salad.

Tortolina. This one takes no effort at all. Dump it in boiling water for a few minutes, just don't overcook it, and then add some Vodka pasta sauce (the orange crap). I use the 3 cheese torts, not the pork or chicken which look weird on the inside. I usually have salad and whatever the tastiest bread I can find locally. Lobster stuffed torts or rav also work the same.

The main thing that seems to matter is don't let her see the twist off wine bottle & make the food look elegantly laid out & such. They won't know the difference.

There are a few others I use but they take more preparation. These take less than 15 minutes and anyone could pull it off.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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