"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Convo with chick went well.

Themanthatcan

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Ok so I go to school w/ this girl and see her everyday.We had a little bit of a relationship in the past that I screwed up, AFC style.Then I came here, applied the knowledge,and she wants me back.The most recent convo I had w/ her (over myspace)Started after I commented one of her pictues saying it "wasn't her style"

Her:Okay mr. _____ (Her name) expert, since you know me SOOOO well to leave that comment on my picture and to put up your headline why is that puicture not me

Me:A "____ expert".....I'm flattered.Not sure.Can't quite put my finger on it.It just seems to lack the Intellectual side of _____.How was your day,darling?

Her:can i not just be a "pretty girl"

Me:I guess if you want to be like your average woman.Most women are more physical than intellectual.You had a little of both.(Which I enjoyed).And please:Don't invite me to anymore of these pity parties.How was your day?

(because she is always fishing for a complement and trying to get me to feel sorry for her and crap)

Her:pity parties wtf r u talking about?

Me:WTH!?I thought you were intellectual! Get with it,babe! ;).Ha.You still haven't answered my question......

Her:Oh my day was good all in all it hit some rough spots but picked itself back up. yours>?

Me:Wonderfull.Days like this are one in.........well.........never.

Her:why so great?

Me:I was really productive.Got lot's of work done.And the fact that 4 beautiful women confessed their love to me in a 24 hour period.That'll get you jacked up.Feels good having options.Then my dad called and said he was at the mall and asked me what I wanted for Christmas.Can't wait to get all my crap.By the way, what do you want for christmas?

(Seriously.It was a GOOD day.)

Her:you dont need to get me anything. i mean you do have 4 other women to buy for.

Me:psshh.Your crazy,I'm broke.I can't buy for 4 women!I have to pick one.Eeny.meeny.Miiny...........____.You HAVE been pretty whiney lately though...You're going to have to show me some effort there,sport.....Otherwise,I might have to put you on the naughty list :).Anyway,I think I have something in mind already...................

Her: maybe i like being on the naughty list. haha

Me:If your on the Naughty list too long, you might be in for a little more than coal dear ;).And I know you wont be able to handle that gift of giving..................

*END*

I think I did pretty good as far as balancing my emotions.That was yesterday.Today at school she was all over me.She gave me alot of chances to mess with her, and get some kino in.For instance she tried to get that point just above your knee that's ticklish on people.(I'm not ticklish there).I told her that. then I go "It's more like this..."and tickled her.Then she BIT the arm I was tickling her with (she was laughing).I'll set something up with her this weekend,I do believe.The tables have turned soo much.I chased her and now she chases me.Oh the irony.Flame,if you will.Or give better advice.By the way shes like an HB8.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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:up: Not bad. Applying DHV, C&F and Push Pull, a great example in one conversation.

Keep up the good work, but don't always push flirting. A freezeout used correctly works gold (this is where she really will want to know whats up with your freezeout). Keep it up for a little bit longer, and get her out on a date and proceed higher.

Overall, excellent.
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THE_ADDMAN

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haha not bad. heck, I like it :)
 

mrRuckus

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Out of the mouths of babes...

Are we posting conversations?

*note* She was captain of cheerleaders in HS and now coaches some

(21:20:34) mrRuckus: kick a cheerleader... get a cookie!
(21:20:36) Missa <AUTO-REPLY>: Save the cheerleader... save the world!
(21:40:40) Missa: dont be mean!
(21:40:40) mrRuckus <AUTO-REPLY>: doin like young men do
(21:55:29) mrRuckus: i'm a big ol meanie pants
(21:55:35) Missa: you are
(21:55:40) mrRuckus: yesh
(21:56:20) Missa: no, I was agreeing
(21:56:28) mrRuckus: i know you were
(21:56:32) Missa: oh ok
(21:56:35) mrRuckus: you love it
(21:57:27) Missa: so... where are we going to lunch on Thursday right?
(21:57:41) mrRuckus: that sentence didn't make much sense
(21:57:50) Missa: ok... sorry
(21:58:00) Missa: Lunch Thursday right? Where are we going?
(21:58:01) mrRuckus: *runs it thru melissa translator*
(21:58:15) Missa: lol
(21:58:25) mrRuckus: i'll try to speak your language
(21:58:37) Missa: then I wont understand
(21:58:58) mrRuckus: so like, you know, i'm not sure, you know, because you, like, asked me to go, you know?
(21:59:13) Missa: shut up!
(21:59:16) Missa: I dont talk like tha
(21:59:19) Missa: that*
(21:59:23) mrRuckus: whatever, pom poms
(21:59:45) Missa: why do you even bother with me
(22:00:08) mrRuckus: what kind of question is that?
(22:01:53) Missa: cause you are always mean to me
(22:02:03) mrRuckus: when am i mean to you
(22:02:22) Missa: you always are
(22:02:25) mrRuckus: no way
(22:02:33) mrRuckus: was i mean to you at mexican?
(22:02:59) Missa: yes
(22:03:00) Missa: lol
(22:03:09) mrRuckus: well it's not my fault you tried to walk off with the silverware
(22:03:18) Missa: lol
(22:03:25) mrRuckus: what did i do that was mean?
(22:03:32) Missa: your comments
(22:03:41) mrRuckus: <---- O:)
(22:03:45) mrRuckus: what comments?
(22:03:53) Missa: your no angel
(22:05:07) mrRuckus: see you have no idea what comments
(22:05:19) mrRuckus: i'm just a nice boy tryin to get by in a cruel cruel world
(22:05:42) mrRuckus: and sometimes i like a little female compansionship
(22:06:01) mrRuckus: but you gotta be mean to me :(
(22:06:45) Missa: Im not mean to yo
(22:06:47) Missa: you*
(22:06:48) mrRuckus: yes you ares
(22:07:13) mrRuckus: like your last email
(22:07:29) mrRuckus: "i can get whatever i want out of you" or whatever it was
(22:07:37) Missa: I could if I tried!
(22:07:42) mrRuckus: you do try!
(22:07:54) mrRuckus: you wake up in the morning and are like "how can i be rude to mrRukus today"
(22:08:02) mrRuckus: and i sit here and take it
(22:08:05) mrRuckus: over and over! :(
(22:08:19) mrRuckus: *runs crying from the room*
(22:09:02) mrRuckus: what is a good lunch location up by your work
(22:10:31) Missa: no, I was saying I could get anything out of you if I tried
(22:10:40) mrRuckus: could you now?
(22:11:02) mrRuckus: and what pray tell is there to get out of me
(22:11:21) Missa: anything i want! lol
(22:11:26) mrRuckus: like WHAT
(22:11:42) Missa: Im like a magician... I cant tell my secrets
(22:11:50) mrRuckus: you dont have any secrets
(22:12:06) Missa: how would you know... its a secret
(22:12:16) mrRuckus: cause you're not that sly
(22:12:52) mrRuckus: i am the puppet master here
(22:12:55) mrRuckus: dance puppet dance!
(22:13:00) mrRuckus: *wiggles his fingers*
(22:13:01) Missa: so you think
(22:13:30) mrRuckus: chinese food, applebee's, damon's, that pizza place with a V?
(22:14:08) mrRuckus: which one will serve me a double shot
(22:14:20) mrRuckus: i'm not sure i can make it through another lunch with you with a clear head
(22:14:26) Missa: hey hey
(22:14:39) Missa: I wonder if mixing bowl is open again
(22:14:42) Missa: ever been there?
(22:14:54) mrRuckus: no sounds ghetto
(22:15:06) Missa: its wonderful!
(22:15:20) mrRuckus: is it small
(22:15:37) mrRuckus: i hate being crunched up to people
(22:15:55) Missa: no, they just renivated
(22:15:57) mrRuckus: i need my hands free to block your wandering hands
(22:16:03) Missa: I will find out tomorrow if they are back open
(22:18:06) mrRuckus: what do they serve
(22:18:25) Missa: umm... a little bit of everything
(22:18:33) Missa: its different sort of food
(22:18:42) mrRuckus: will i get disease
(22:18:46) Missa: like I ALWAYS get fried macaroni and cheese
(22:18:55) mrRuckus: that sounds like terrible food
(22:18:59) mrRuckus: i don't want to go there
(22:19:06) Missa: fine... we wont go there loser!
(22:19:13) mrRuckus: and i'm the mean one?
(22:19:18) Missa: damon's takes forever at lunch
(22:19:20) Missa: where else?
(22:19:22) mrRuckus: i never call you names, hoser
(22:20:19) Missa: i say it with love
(22:20:32) mrRuckus: slow down, dangerous one
(22:20:50) mrRuckus: can't go to love just like that!
(22:20:52) Missa: what?
(22:22:06) Missa: gee whiz
(22:22:30) mrRuckus: haha
(22:24:10) mrRuckus: ok find out about mixing bowl
(22:26:03) Missa: no no no
(22:26:06) Missa: we wont go there
(22:26:18) Missa: I understand you arent open to try new things
(22:26:19) mrRuckus: why
(22:26:32) mrRuckus: reverse pscyhology!!!!
(22:26:55) mrRuckus: we'll go to mixing bowl
(22:26:59) mrRuckus: wear something sexy
(22:27:56) Missa: if your lucky! ;)
(22:28:36) mrRuckus: sexy or no kiss
(22:29:01) Missa: there was a kiss that I was getting?
(22:29:43) mrRuckus: well it's possible if you play your cards right but not possible if you can't listen
(22:30:14) Missa: if I cant listen?
(22:30:18) mrRuckus: haha
(22:30:56) mrRuckus: you are obstinate
(22:31:12) Missa: what does that mean? lol
(22:31:22) mrRuckus: stubborn
(22:31:33) mrRuckus: i think you do things just to do the opposite of what i say
(22:32:43) Missa: no I assure you I dont
(22:33:02) mrRuckus: i know there's a side of you that no one gets to see
(22:33:19) Missa: like what?
(22:33:47) mrRuckus: you nearly always get your way don't you?
(22:34:10) Missa: certainly not
(22:34:15) mrRuckus: mmm hmm
(22:34:20) Missa: Im actually very good with compromise
(22:34:26) mrRuckus: or so you say
(22:34:30) Missa: I actually get stepped on a lot
(22:34:36) mrRuckus: by whom?
(22:35:57) Missa: people! I suck stuff up a lot unless I really believe in something that is worth fighting for
(22:36:03) mrRuckus: i remember you telling me you were attracted to bad guys when we first met
(22:36:31) Missa: yeah
(22:36:40) Missa: my family gives me **** for that
(22:36:49) Missa: they say I let the nice ones go and wait for the *******s
(22:37:25) mrRuckus: why do you do that?
(22:37:30) Missa: I dunno
(22:37:35) Missa: honestly, I dont!
(22:38:17) mrRuckus: maybe the *******s just take you and the nice ones are too passive
(22:38:35) Missa: I think so
(22:38:46) Missa: its like if they are too nice I will walk all over them and I dont like that
(22:39:06) mrRuckus: classic
(22:39:07) Missa: I Want a nice guy, but I want someone that will also put me in my place
(22:39:21) mrRuckus: haha "get back in line!"
(22:39:40) mrRuckus: there's a delicate balance
(22:39:45) Missa: you know... be nice to me, but If Im being a raging ***** tell me!
(22:39:46) Missa: lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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