"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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duffman360

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when i fully recover from my injury " broken leg" i plan on talkin to this girl but i'm thinkin on what i'm going to talk about. i only see her when i'm goin to school in the morning she usually wears a skirt and a hoody cause she goes to a catholic all girl school. please some one post some good convos to have after the intro
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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navyseal2101

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I usually ask school, grade, name. I move from that to a few negs or something then usually do a got to get back to friends and number close, keep it under 5 mins usually, seems to work well but i'd like to see some other topics too.
 

Fluid

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sex, relationships, internet, your broken leg, the weather, her shoes, your hair, ANYTHING

think about it when your with a group of friends do you think about what you guys are gonna talk about? My friends and I could start it off with something liek did you see the football game last night and end up talking about old high skool stories...
 
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