"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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duffman360

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when i fully recover from my injury " broken leg" i plan on talkin to this girl but i'm thinkin on what i'm going to talk about. i only see her when i'm goin to school in the morning she usually wears a skirt and a hoody cause she goes to a catholic all girl school. please some one post some good convos to have after the intro
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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navyseal2101

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I usually ask school, grade, name. I move from that to a few negs or something then usually do a got to get back to friends and number close, keep it under 5 mins usually, seems to work well but i'd like to see some other topics too.
 

Fluid

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sex, relationships, internet, your broken leg, the weather, her shoes, your hair, ANYTHING

think about it when your with a group of friends do you think about what you guys are gonna talk about? My friends and I could start it off with something liek did you see the football game last night and end up talking about old high skool stories...
 
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