"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just asking for some pointers and see what other ppl would of said and if i did ok or not

bear in mind this gal has a bf, but shes been showing signs of intrest in me

i told her that my mate has a mission to get me and her to hook up by xmas, she asked how he is gonna do that

me: ur guess is as good as mine lol, i told him i didnt need his help

her: u dont want me anyway

me: exactly, if i change my mind ill let you know

her: i dont wanna know

me: is that why you asked me twice if i fancied you? lol

her: shut up, thats was ages ago, thats history

me: lol ur right, so whats changed since then then?

her: what do you mean?

me: why did you wanna know a few days ago but not now?

her: i dunno

me: lol kk well i wont let you know if i change my mind, even if u do ask again, which you will lol

her: how do u know i will ask??

me: i just do, try and prove me wrong, ill give it a week lol im off now bye

her : bye

shes with her bf tonight, im hoping shes gonna be thinking about me at least a lil bit while she is with him (she has done before, she once text me a few times right infront of him, in those texts came the first "so do you fancy me then?")

cheers for any advice
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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the most i can tell from the convo is that she didnt seem interested during the convo. you should always up the CF on aim or w/e becuse you cant have eye contact, kino ect.
 

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Is there a section in this online forum for internet chat reports? My god, it's so easy to be c&f, dumbass etc online with anyone.
 

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so what would you of changed then?

i really dont get if your having a go at me or not, please explain your replys more

did i do ok? how would you of changed it?

i dont want to know if shes intrested or not (i believe she is anyway, and her on msn is quite different to her in real life, so im not asking about the gal, im asking whether or not i replied well to the things she said)

thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I hate to break it, but she doesn't seem interested in you.
Also, be more ****y & funny, you come off too clingy. Don't ever ask a girl if she's into you - simply pretend you already KNOW she wants you. You should have told her something like, 'Give me a call when your boyfriend comes to his senses and dumps you as he realizes what kind of crazy gal you are.'
 

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Id like to ask you guys what in that lil convo there makes you think shes not into me?

Id also like to point out that for the 3rd time in this thread that iam not intrested in your opinions whether or not you think she is intrested in me!

I said i wanted replys on what i should of said and whether or not how i replied to things were good!
 

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Originally posted by Brian20o2
you asking if shes still interested = bad
you not using much CF = bad
her not playing along and joking back = not interested or bad
Hold up!

Where did i ask her if shes still intrested?

Where would you off used CF?

Ok i kinda agree with her not playing back, although saying that she isnt really a joking sort of gal

anyway i have other reasons to believe shes intrested in me

some are, shes admitted she flirts with me, shes admitted shed kiss me if she didnt have a bf, she hangs out and texts me alot and still despite the fact that her bf hates me with a passion and admitted he is jelous and also wouldnt talk to her for a whole night after she was texting me at college, shes told me that shes not gonna stop seeing and talking to me because he doesnt like me! Shes been round my house, before this convo we arranged that im going round hers this week, to collect a cheese sandwich that she owes me (long story), she wants me to cook her lasagna one day, shes called me really cool, funny and great to hang out with

there are more reasons aswell,
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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