"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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six-foot AZN '05

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I have always had awesome c+f convos on IM and stuff like that. I can always get the girl to laugh by busting and teasing her but I find it different in real life. On IM I never run out of ideas to tease the girl about or talk about. She could not say anything and I'd just make something up and bust on her about it. In real life, especially in HS, where everyone has already an impression of me as not a DJ, I can't bust or tease the girl as effectively as I would want. Could someone direct me towards the light?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's never too late for a new impression. If you don't have any ideas to bust on her, just talk, fluff, and you'll get something to use eventually.

MAKE SURE your only game isn't c & f, if you use more then one game your destined to be better then just using one.
 
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