"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Conversing....advice(college)

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i am bad at finding stuff to say to a girl... like i'll open up talking about a test we just had or w.e then it becomes an awkward silence after. what do i talk about?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Be observant, notice and remember stuff you heard from them.

Make a joke, neg. hit a b!tch, find whatever you can use to tease her.
 
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Things you have in common with everyone in college:
- you're majoring in something
- you're living somewhere cool without your parents (usually)
- you both partied last friday
- you both think the prof is hilariously socially inept
- you're both thinking "what's the deal with that thing they're doing in the middle of campus?"

etc etc... Anything you're up to, they're up to. It's college. Ideally you'll have something more interesting and situational to discuss, but if all else fails and you freeze, just talk about one of these common things.
 
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