"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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612_Da_Playa

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Man, I'm just posting up a storm today. Anyway, is it essential for you to be sociable in order to succeed with women. I mean I thought just good looks was enough but that is getting me nowhere. Are you guys sociable? Is that a must?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SlyD4rK

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maybe you should read the bible first...of course you have to be social....i mean...ever wonder why the jocks always get the girls? becuase thay are confident and socialble...duh
 
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FO REAL! read the bible and the stickys...There well worth readin. THEY GOT LOT OF HELPFUL **** IN THERE 2.
 

oakraiderz2

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Hmm...my good looks have gotten me ferther than people i know who try. Theyll only get you so far before you gotta put some effort in. When i do talk, girls still consider me quit but whatever, it works for me.
 

SlyD4rK

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FACT: women are more attracted to personality than looks.
FACT: Men are more attracted to looks then personality
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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