"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ok guys, im reading great stuff on this forum, i was an early adopter of david deangelos stuff and now after 2 years im comming back to see the industry is moving forward. So i have some things i wanna try on girls soon... try some neg hits on stuck up girls, some funny neg hits on regular girls and stuff. i have some doubts maybe some of you can help me out

1 - what about conversation? how do i transition to having a conversation after a C/F or neg hit? should we stay on the topic of whatever im teasing? is it even necessary to have a conversation? cuz im thinking like in order to leave her wanting i should maybe make conversations like a few seconds long and then leave so shell come looking for me?

2 - should i kiss up at all (build rapport)? should i try to find what to talk about from what she says? cuz like i mean its gonna be lame if all I do is the C/F and teasing stuff, so what would you tlak about when your not doing the teasing?

3 - also, say some other guy is talking to her, and i want to get him out, is neg hitting the competition seen weird by girls? or should i persist until the bastard has left?

4 - also what is the 3 second rule ive been reading about?

hope you guys can help me, this girl i swear she doesnt know its comming! oh also i was thinking, neg hits, and ****y funny will work only when your talking to the girl alone right? cuz like if theres a small group conversation i think simple comedy etc will work fine... so like if theres a small group then its better to isolate the girl right? what are ur thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thx, makes sense... i will bring my stopwatch around for next time :crackup:
 
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