"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So i was recently scanning facebook and this kids post really, really, really got to me. Now me and this dude have been buds for a while and i felt bad for this chump.

The post: When Beautiful Girls Complain About Being Single And Im Just Invisible I Guess </3 Forever Alone Status! /_\

Random Chump: Right?

Him: Im Mean Like I Would Looooove To Be The Guy That Treats You Like A Queen Haha (this dude never shuts up about treating girls like Queens.)

Random Chump: #word

Me: Your glowing of desperation son, that shvt ain't cute.

Him: Uh It Would Be Desperate If I Asked Every Girl I Met Out. Not For Saying This. Now Get Off My Status If Youre Gunna Hate. Cause Nobody Likes Haters...

Me: No dude your basically crying for ****ing attention. Leave the corny treat you like a princess crap at home.

him: I Dont See Any Tears. And Just Cause I Treat Girls How They Deserve Doesnt Make Me Thirsty Or Corny Or Whatever Im Just A Gentleman (this made me lol)

Me: I got a question I want you to answer honestly. What makes a woman more special than anyone else for them to deserve some special treatment? Is it the fact they have a vagina? is it because hollywood tells us so? Elaborate please.

Him: (no reply)

Hopefully something sparked in him but its just things like this that tell you the wussification of men is still going strong. Just something I wanted to share with you guys. :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What Really Makes Me Lol Is When People Type Like This. Haha but seriously, I see things like this all the time too. What can you expect, though.
 
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Exactly I hope I wasn't that bad back in the day.. lmao
 
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Stingers said:
So i was recently scanning facebook and this kids post really, really, really got to me. Now me and this dude have been buds for a while and i felt bad for this chump.

The post: When Beautiful Girls Complain About Being Single And Im Just Invisible I Guess </3 Forever Alone Status! /_\

Random Chump: Right?

Him: Im Mean Like I Would Looooove To Be The Guy That Treats You Like A Queen Haha (this dude never shuts up about treating girls like Queens.)

Random Chump: #word

Me: Your glowing of desperation son, that shvt ain't cute.

Him: Uh It Would Be Desperate If I Asked Every Girl I Met Out. Not For Saying This. Now Get Off My Status If Youre Gunna Hate. Cause Nobody Likes Haters...

Me: No dude your basically crying for ****ing attention. Leave the corny treat you like a princess crap at home.

him: I Dont See Any Tears. And Just Cause I Treat Girls How They Deserve Doesnt Make Me Thirsty Or Corny Or Whatever Im Just A Gentleman (this made me lol)

Me: I got a question I want you to answer honestly. What makes a woman more special than anyone else for them to deserve some special treatment? Is it the fact they have a vagina? is it because hollywood tells us so? Elaborate please.

Him: (no reply)

Hopefully something sparked in him but its just things like this that tell you the wussification of men is still going strong. Just something I wanted to share with you guys. :)
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What would be even more epic would be the responses from any hot chicks who may be on his friends list with responses to his topic like: "Awww. We know you'll treat any lucky girl like a princess! Don't worry sweetie! You'll find someone who likes you just for you someday! xoxo <3

Some dudes need to learn the pain filled reality way.
 
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Stingers, no cross-posting between sub-forums. I deleted the duplicate in "Tips".
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Naughty Ninja said:
What would be even more epic would be the responses from any hot chicks who may be on his friends list with responses to his topic like: "Awww. We know you'll treat any lucky girl like a princess! Don't worry sweetie! You'll find someone who likes you just for you someday! xoxo <3

Some dudes need to learn the pain filled reality way.
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^This.
 
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I learnt the hard way, in a way, many of us here did.
We cannot however, sadly, open the eyes of fools. They must hit the ground before they realise they could be in the sky.
Also, that queen nonsense is damn annoying. But I know when some gal comes with me, she's gonna have a damn fun time ;)
 
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