"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dannowillbookem

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me and my current LTR hopeful briggs...we were talking about our plans for the evening and earlier.... i think i messed up when i asked her out

*i'm jojoeyes*



baoomchici: lol what are you doing tonight?
jojoeyes: ah supposed to go to this movie with the other briggs
baoomchici: BRIDGETTE ELLIOT?
baoomchici: wtf........
baoomchici: danno you're kidding me right?
jojoeyes: lol i was bored
baoomchici: you talk to her?
jojoeyes: now i dont want to
jojoeyes: sometimes
jojoeyes: why is she so bad
baoomchici: lol she's not
baoomchici: have you seen her myspace?
jojoeyes: uhhhh
jojoeyes: ?
jojoeyes: idk
baoomchici: ll hold on
baoomchici: http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=***********
jojoeyes: oh yeah
jojoeyes: so whats so awful about her?
baoomchici: nothing
baoomchici: i didnt know you knew here though
jojoeyes: oh lol
jojoeyes: psh oh yeah doesnt she hang with alyse???
baoomchici: yeah
jojoeyes: ahhh
baoomchici: yeah.
jojoeyes: but i promised
jojoeyes: and shes pretty good looking
baoomchici: BRIDGETTE ELLINS?
jojoeyes: y..yeah...
jojoeyes: well like in some pics
baoomchici: wow
jojoeyes: but i cant find her number
baoomchici: lol
jojoeyes: so uh briggs
jojoeyes: doing anything tonight?
baoomchici: i guess not
baoomchici: i was supposed to go to natasha's party
jojoeyes: wanna go to the movies?
baoomchici: lol not with them
jojoeyes: i'll ditch them
jojoeyes: want to?
baoomchici: lol idk
jojoeyes: ahh whats ur home number again
baoomchici: not telling you
baoomchici: i'm not going that would be mean to bridgette
baoomchici: go with her
baoomchici: she is a hottie
jojoeyes: but i cant find her number
jojoeyes: psh whatever i dont have to take morality lessons from you
baoomchici: lol wait ill get her number for you
baoomchici: 2925646
baoomchici: that's nicole's
baoomchici: that's who she is with
baoomchici: i wanna hook a brotha up
baoomchici: SO GO
jojoeyes: psh for one thing i dont need a pimp
jojoeyes: and a second thing that chick doesnt even know me
baoomchici: so i wanna hook a sister up too
baoomchici: meaning her
jojoeyes: lol
jojoeyes: haha i dialed nicoles number and sat there waitin for it to ring for like a miinute then i rememberd the home phone went dead
baoomchici: lol wow
jojoeyes: hehe


lol its nice to have a forum to post useless **** like this in
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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snintel

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Why did I just read that ****? I really want to sue you right now.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Most of us can just about tolerate MSN logs if a question or unique issue follows that you think we should comment on.

This is isn't the case here. Why post it when it only serves to annoy?

yawn...

And really, I don't see ANY point in posting it at all...you fvcked up but you don't need us to tell you that.
 
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