"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Prestige

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Alright.. heres the problem(s)

1) Apparently, I have the 'predatory' look.. whatever the **** that means.. I dont even know so how can I fix it? anyone know what this 'look' is and how to appear differently?

2) I graduated High School last year, and have been working full-time to save money for College (which im attending in September).. the problem here is, I dont get out much at all because all I do is work, work-out and sleep. I havent really met anyone new since HS and I find it really hard to talk to girls that are my age (19) and relate to them, sound mature and get them attracted to me since the last time I was always around girls was HS and the girls were younger.

anybody got any ideas for me?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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