"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Conversation: No emotion, Then Lots of it

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slickaz

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what do you guys think of women that talk to you on the phone,

one day with very high emotion, with the "baby" n "sugar" n "i miss you" in every conversation.

To the next day being very aloof and absolutely NO emotional connection at all. As in "Hey, how you going?"

Texts also having the same up and down emotion.

In fact some days it changes between 3 to 4 hours.

Personally when i have come across this situation with women, i put her on the back burner.
Although i do understand that some days, some of them may just be having a bad day, however that should not be reflected on me.

So this is what i do, I reward her when she is being nice, and take my attention away when she is not being so nice.

Is that fair?
Most girls get fixed when they notice i end phone calls quickly and avoid replying texts or emails on the days when they are not being nice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jitterbug

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slickaz said:
what do you guys think of women that talk to you on the phone,

one day with very high emotion, with the "baby" n "sugar" n "i miss you" in every conversation.

To the next day being very aloof and absolutely NO emotional connection at all. As in "Hey, how you going?"

Texts also having the same up and down emotion.

In fact some days it changes between 3 to 4 hours.
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What do I think? That's going off the typical female mood swing orbit. Crazy chick, drama queen, scratch her off relationship potential list, do not get emotionally involved. I like to play it safe for my mental well-being.
 
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From what it sounds like, she probably **** testing you, she's seeing if you're going to be reactive to her.

The most reactive/needy you become with her, the more she'll resent you, so don't do it. No matter how compelled you feel to text her back or respond do her, don't do it. Just play it cool and just really STOP caring.

There's no need to punish/reward her for this type of behavior, she's just simply testing you, don't give in to it. Play it cool, keep your frame and if it's truly driving you insane, TALK TO OTHER WOMEN.

-Kevin
 
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