"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Conversation: No emotion, Then Lots of it

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slickaz

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what do you guys think of women that talk to you on the phone,

one day with very high emotion, with the "baby" n "sugar" n "i miss you" in every conversation.

To the next day being very aloof and absolutely NO emotional connection at all. As in "Hey, how you going?"

Texts also having the same up and down emotion.

In fact some days it changes between 3 to 4 hours.

Personally when i have come across this situation with women, i put her on the back burner.
Although i do understand that some days, some of them may just be having a bad day, however that should not be reflected on me.

So this is what i do, I reward her when she is being nice, and take my attention away when she is not being so nice.

Is that fair?
Most girls get fixed when they notice i end phone calls quickly and avoid replying texts or emails on the days when they are not being nice.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jitterbug

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slickaz said:
what do you guys think of women that talk to you on the phone,

one day with very high emotion, with the "baby" n "sugar" n "i miss you" in every conversation.

To the next day being very aloof and absolutely NO emotional connection at all. As in "Hey, how you going?"

Texts also having the same up and down emotion.

In fact some days it changes between 3 to 4 hours.
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What do I think? That's going off the typical female mood swing orbit. Crazy chick, drama queen, scratch her off relationship potential list, do not get emotionally involved. I like to play it safe for my mental well-being.
 
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From what it sounds like, she probably **** testing you, she's seeing if you're going to be reactive to her.

The most reactive/needy you become with her, the more she'll resent you, so don't do it. No matter how compelled you feel to text her back or respond do her, don't do it. Just play it cool and just really STOP caring.

There's no need to punish/reward her for this type of behavior, she's just simply testing you, don't give in to it. Play it cool, keep your frame and if it's truly driving you insane, TALK TO OTHER WOMEN.

-Kevin
 
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