If you're interested in these kind of things, I'd love anything you have to say or give advice about.
Girlie: what did u need to think abot?
Girlie: *about
surfstud8669: what kind of person I am
Girlie: are we going to discuss anything or is everything just over and is it just pointless to talk about.
surfstud8669: decided I needed to rediscover what is most important in life
surfstud8669: dunno what do u think
Girlie: what do u mean by that? what is most important in life?
surfstud8669: Priorities, kind of women I date, who to trust, how to schedule my time...
Girlie: and are you going to discuss what you came up with or leave me hanging?4
surfstud8669: I haven't really. I just know if we stay together I'm going to need you to be more relax and playful with me, which I don't think you can do because you're nopt interested enough in me
Girlie: how dare you think that
surfstud8669: You like nothing that I do for fun
Girlie: what about the things i need from you they're not important enough to even try are they
surfstud8669: Please tell
Girlie: thats all i have been telling you aparently you havent listened
surfstud8669: the only thing youve talked to be about is what I say to you in arguments (which is a result of you defying me and me getting pissed for you not even seeing my side or point of view) and drinking
surfstud8669: me*
Girlie: that the jealousy and making me feel like i havent done anything for you when all i've been doing is trying for the past 4 months
surfstud8669: I haven't been jealous
surfstud8669: I just asked why u were with adrian that one night, just a question
surfstud8669: u made it into jealousy
surfstud8669: don't even say 4 months
Girlie: it shouldnt have been such a big question and u didnt ask why i was with him you told me to tell you if i wanted to be with him so u could forget about me?
Girlie: why cant i say 4 months
surfstud8669: you've been perfect to me since you broke up with me, I'll give you that though
Girlie: what did i do before that, enlighten me
Girlie: you told me that i changed and thats why you stood with me
surfstud8669: i dunno you're the one who said you did things for me
surfstud8669: if I remember correctly I was changing the way I acted and talked to people when you told me "we were moving too fast"
surfstud8669: sorry, I'm not going to be that submissive again
Girlie: but i apologized for that and i told you i just got scared
Girlie: if ive been perfect to you since i broke up with you then why are we going through all of this **** now?
surfstud8669: because nothing I say is right, or everything I say is wrong I should say
Girlie: how is that when ive been perfectly happy with you?
Girlie: if u never said anything right or said everything wrong how would i be happy
surfstud8669: you made a completely RIDICULOUS argument about me and my dad saying something and told me I WAS WRONG... didnt fly well
Girlie: i NEVER said u were wrong i just said why did you jump at me when you couldve just dealt with it better then u did
surfstud8669: just because you thought you were right you turned the conversation into 'the way I say things to you', like you were asking for a fight
surfstud8669: All I did was defend myself and that's perfectly fine. I didn't even really care.
Girlie: because you say things to me like when u say it thats the end of the convo and im stupid and i cant talk anymore
surfstud8669: Oh yeahhh, I really said that before you exploded
Girlie: ok i know u did and i dont blame you im just saying you couldve done it in a way that didnt basically tell me i was an idiot
surfstud8669: Did that come out of my mouth?
Girlie: thats how u talked to me
surfstud8669: That's what you put into my mouth
surfstud8669: I remember just thinking why in the world would you lecture me about something you werent involved in
Girlie: and me not caring about you and you're nopt interested enough in me thats not putting words into my mouth?
surfstud8669: not thinking that you were stupid
Girlie: i wasnt lecturing you about that in particular i was just telling you that in general you do things like that when someone tells u u did something that u dont seem to remember you tell them theres no way and that theyre wrong
surfstud8669: No I'm not putting anything in your mouth, I just had time to read about relationships and you gave me all the signs of disinterest.
surfstud8669: How many times has that happened?
surfstud8669: once?
surfstud8669: you say I do things that happen only once?
Girlie: perfect example when you trampled on mel's foot and broke her toe nail she said ow trip u just stepped on my foot and u exploded at her saying u didnt
surfstud8669: That was after we were fighting
surfstud8669: That was also something I did drunk, which you CANNOT say that I do all the time to people or act towards them
surfstud8669: I treat Mel very well, don't give me that
Girlie: and u say i show signs of disinterest when all ive been doing is trying to talk to you because ive been ****ing devastated during this whole **** beasue i love you so ****ing much
surfstud8669: ..
surfstud8669: why do you love me
Girlie: because despite the **** that i argue with you about i think your amazing and no matter what everyone tells me i know that minus the arguments and little twerks you do treat me well and even though right now it really doesnt seem like it we compliment one another... you've given me confidence and i had hopefully made u realize that u were a fun person without drinking and you became a better person as have i
surfstud8669: so I make you feel better about yourself
Girlie: not now
Girlie: but u did
surfstud8669: so you don't love me right now
Girlie: thats doesn't make me stop loving you
Girlie: that just makes me hurt as much as i love
surfstud8669: so the thing you love about me is that I make you feel better about yourself when we don't have a disagreement. Not my interests, or hobbies, looks, status, integrity, goals, achievements, sexyness, charm, anything?
surfstud8669: and you don't love me this only time when I'm not making you feel good about yourself and we have a disagreement?
Girlie: everything that makes you you is what i love why would i lvoe you because of your status or looks or "sexyness"
surfstud8669: What happens when you finally get your confidence up after I tell you you're beautiful enough times
Girlie: didnt i just say that even tho we're in an argument i lvoe you just as much
Girlie: im saying thats what i appreciated from you not that thats the only reason i love you why arent you listening to me thats not what i said
surfstud8669: and don't think I'm trying to put you down right now, I'm just curious if you're going to be bored of me
Girlie: i did not say that i dont love you cuz your not making me feel good about myself
surfstud8669: oh ok.
Girlie: you just misunderstood everything i said
Girlie: i was just saying the things that ive seen that we've done for eachother
Girlie: things we both needed but of course you took it the complete wrong way
Girlie: do u serously need someone that will lvoe you for ur status and looks?
Girlie: because im sorry those are never the things that i love someone for so i can't give you that
surfstud8669: no I was just hoping you didnt have feelings for me just because I make you feel better about yourself, but I understand
I kind of lost control right there. What should I have done? Should I even care about this girl? *head pounds*
Girlie: what did u need to think abot?
Girlie: *about
surfstud8669: what kind of person I am
Girlie: are we going to discuss anything or is everything just over and is it just pointless to talk about.
surfstud8669: decided I needed to rediscover what is most important in life
surfstud8669: dunno what do u think
Girlie: what do u mean by that? what is most important in life?
surfstud8669: Priorities, kind of women I date, who to trust, how to schedule my time...
Girlie: and are you going to discuss what you came up with or leave me hanging?4
surfstud8669: I haven't really. I just know if we stay together I'm going to need you to be more relax and playful with me, which I don't think you can do because you're nopt interested enough in me
Girlie: how dare you think that
surfstud8669: You like nothing that I do for fun
Girlie: what about the things i need from you they're not important enough to even try are they
surfstud8669: Please tell
Girlie: thats all i have been telling you aparently you havent listened
surfstud8669: the only thing youve talked to be about is what I say to you in arguments (which is a result of you defying me and me getting pissed for you not even seeing my side or point of view) and drinking
surfstud8669: me*
Girlie: that the jealousy and making me feel like i havent done anything for you when all i've been doing is trying for the past 4 months
surfstud8669: I haven't been jealous
surfstud8669: I just asked why u were with adrian that one night, just a question
surfstud8669: u made it into jealousy
surfstud8669: don't even say 4 months
Girlie: it shouldnt have been such a big question and u didnt ask why i was with him you told me to tell you if i wanted to be with him so u could forget about me?
Girlie: why cant i say 4 months
surfstud8669: you've been perfect to me since you broke up with me, I'll give you that though
Girlie: what did i do before that, enlighten me
Girlie: you told me that i changed and thats why you stood with me
surfstud8669: i dunno you're the one who said you did things for me
surfstud8669: if I remember correctly I was changing the way I acted and talked to people when you told me "we were moving too fast"
surfstud8669: sorry, I'm not going to be that submissive again
Girlie: but i apologized for that and i told you i just got scared
Girlie: if ive been perfect to you since i broke up with you then why are we going through all of this **** now?
surfstud8669: because nothing I say is right, or everything I say is wrong I should say
Girlie: how is that when ive been perfectly happy with you?
Girlie: if u never said anything right or said everything wrong how would i be happy
surfstud8669: you made a completely RIDICULOUS argument about me and my dad saying something and told me I WAS WRONG... didnt fly well
Girlie: i NEVER said u were wrong i just said why did you jump at me when you couldve just dealt with it better then u did
surfstud8669: just because you thought you were right you turned the conversation into 'the way I say things to you', like you were asking for a fight
surfstud8669: All I did was defend myself and that's perfectly fine. I didn't even really care.
Girlie: because you say things to me like when u say it thats the end of the convo and im stupid and i cant talk anymore
surfstud8669: Oh yeahhh, I really said that before you exploded
Girlie: ok i know u did and i dont blame you im just saying you couldve done it in a way that didnt basically tell me i was an idiot
surfstud8669: Did that come out of my mouth?
Girlie: thats how u talked to me
surfstud8669: That's what you put into my mouth
surfstud8669: I remember just thinking why in the world would you lecture me about something you werent involved in
Girlie: and me not caring about you and you're nopt interested enough in me thats not putting words into my mouth?
surfstud8669: not thinking that you were stupid
Girlie: i wasnt lecturing you about that in particular i was just telling you that in general you do things like that when someone tells u u did something that u dont seem to remember you tell them theres no way and that theyre wrong
surfstud8669: No I'm not putting anything in your mouth, I just had time to read about relationships and you gave me all the signs of disinterest.
surfstud8669: How many times has that happened?
surfstud8669: once?
surfstud8669: you say I do things that happen only once?
Girlie: perfect example when you trampled on mel's foot and broke her toe nail she said ow trip u just stepped on my foot and u exploded at her saying u didnt
surfstud8669: That was after we were fighting
surfstud8669: That was also something I did drunk, which you CANNOT say that I do all the time to people or act towards them
surfstud8669: I treat Mel very well, don't give me that
Girlie: and u say i show signs of disinterest when all ive been doing is trying to talk to you because ive been ****ing devastated during this whole **** beasue i love you so ****ing much
surfstud8669: ..
surfstud8669: why do you love me
Girlie: because despite the **** that i argue with you about i think your amazing and no matter what everyone tells me i know that minus the arguments and little twerks you do treat me well and even though right now it really doesnt seem like it we compliment one another... you've given me confidence and i had hopefully made u realize that u were a fun person without drinking and you became a better person as have i
surfstud8669: so I make you feel better about yourself
Girlie: not now
Girlie: but u did
surfstud8669: so you don't love me right now
Girlie: thats doesn't make me stop loving you
Girlie: that just makes me hurt as much as i love
surfstud8669: so the thing you love about me is that I make you feel better about yourself when we don't have a disagreement. Not my interests, or hobbies, looks, status, integrity, goals, achievements, sexyness, charm, anything?
surfstud8669: and you don't love me this only time when I'm not making you feel good about yourself and we have a disagreement?
Girlie: everything that makes you you is what i love why would i lvoe you because of your status or looks or "sexyness"
surfstud8669: What happens when you finally get your confidence up after I tell you you're beautiful enough times
Girlie: didnt i just say that even tho we're in an argument i lvoe you just as much
Girlie: im saying thats what i appreciated from you not that thats the only reason i love you why arent you listening to me thats not what i said
surfstud8669: and don't think I'm trying to put you down right now, I'm just curious if you're going to be bored of me
Girlie: i did not say that i dont love you cuz your not making me feel good about myself
surfstud8669: oh ok.
Girlie: you just misunderstood everything i said
Girlie: i was just saying the things that ive seen that we've done for eachother
Girlie: things we both needed but of course you took it the complete wrong way
Girlie: do u serously need someone that will lvoe you for ur status and looks?
Girlie: because im sorry those are never the things that i love someone for so i can't give you that
surfstud8669: no I was just hoping you didnt have feelings for me just because I make you feel better about yourself, but I understand
I kind of lost control right there. What should I have done? Should I even care about this girl? *head pounds*