Conversation BASICS

[Rint]

I'm terrible at conversation but i know this is how to make a good one
#1: Be fun positive up 4 anything unless it's REALLY STUPID
#2:LISTIAN THIS IS HUGE LIKE MAJOR everyone likes talking about themselves in a way just listian comment complement say like WOW mayb i should try that
#3: Compliment DONT flatter ppl can tell when ur kissing their ass and when ur not
#4: Be intresting talk about wat she likes but dont pamper her just her taste u know wat u've read in the bible
#5: i'm terrible at this add on

 

[Exo]

I say this alot but: NOUNING, it's the answer to the "what do I say?". Basically you listen to any nouns in the sentence and say something about that. Try just asking anything about it.

 

[JH6]

Originally posted by Exo
I say this alot but: NOUNING, it's the answer to the "what do I say?". Basically you listen to any nouns in the sentence and say something about that. Try just asking anything about it.

Quick comment for Rint. Some good stuff, brief but good. Please run your posts through a spell checker before you post them.. Thanks.

As for Exo. Good tip as well. I use nouning as well, all the time. Its basically getting her to talk non stop and you just ask questions.

example..

Her "yeah my brother is going to cornell university this year"

You "oh cornell, thats right one of my friends goes there"

Her "oh who's your friend"

You "oh its my friend Jacob, blah blah blah"

See how it goes back and forth...

When a topic runs dry, just ask her another pre thought out question, and keep running with that.

 

[danrizzy]

any topic starters would do, and then use initiative from there.

Examples:
What did you do this weekend?
Do you go to any clubs?

you get my point